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    What kinds of places would you never expect to hang out at?

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    Clubs, museums/art galleries...

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    Sports bars, clubs, Mensa, group sex shit, shopping malls, a drum circle... lol

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    Interesting question

    city center at night, railway station. Places were there are lots of immigrants, drug addicts or beggars (= doesn't feel safe)

    dirty, filthy places, under bridges etc.

    dirty beer pubs in suburbs
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    If there's nowhere for me to nap or easily park, I don't want to go.
    No place to park or nap but a lot of dogs I can sit with? Count me in.


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    Places with lewd/loud/obnoxious people. Usually places with large groups of people. And if I am there, I’ll be hanging on the fringes.
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    Sporting events yeahhhhhh.
    I was having a hard time coming up with something for this thread because really I think I'd go anywhere my best ppl were going cuz even if it sucked they'd make it, or something.
    But a sporting event.. like baseball or something... just no

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    Underwater, above 4000 m from sea level also bars, anything involving politics, mosques, Illuminati hangouts and online... oh wait not that last one.
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    Anywhere with people

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nihilist 007 View Post
    Underwater, above 4000 m from sea level also bars, anything involving politics, mosques, Illuminati hangouts and online... oh wait not that last one.
    You forgot to mention: In space and having a rope around your neck attached to a branch of a tree without having ground under you feet.
    Not the most pleasant experience of "hanging out".
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    Heavy metal festivals
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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkcanary View Post
    Sports bars, clubs, Mensa, group sex shit, shopping malls, a drum circle... lol
    I'm ok with shopping malls lol. I actually don't like bars and clubs that much, though. I've gone to them several times, though, even though they aren't my thing, because meeting other gay guys can be difficult otherwise. I don't like alcohol that much, and the gay bars/clubs I've been to have usually been really dark lol.

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    Anywhere with a lot of people
    Anywhere with drug users, thots, and other hedonists
    Anywhere in third-world-like places, ghettos, etc.
    Anywhere with weird mentally ill people
    Anywhere with music I don't like
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    I do not like when near are drunken and speaking loud people. Though I may visit those places in other time, as those places mb good itself.
    I do not like cafes with an alcohol.

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    democratic or feminist rallies.
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    Coachella, cult compounds, the UAE, most parts of Florida, trendy bars full of boring people in Manhattan, organic farms.
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    Bars. What obnoxious places: one pays far too much money for bad alcohol and perhaps bad food while loud music plays. I just genuinely can’t understand the appeal — is it just a way for alcoholics to socially legitimize their bad habits? It’s just such a weirdly common and quietly unchallenged part of the culture. Meanwhile my city is doing anything it can to shut down the one or two strip clubs in town: is encouraging alcoholism really less socially dangerous than horny men staring at paid dancers’ tits? And heaven knows there’s no shortage of alcoholics or fat people who complain about sexual licentiousness (take these forums for example) destroying Western culture or whatever. Fix your own shit before criticizing others’, to paraphrase Jesus. But so much of life is just bizarre when you think about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kill4Me View Post
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    Seedy neighbourhoods, clubs, anywhere you'd go to put the needle in, basically.
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    This is actually hard for me to answer. I have hung around a little bit in so many places.... even sadistic str8 male SMASH bars, and sporting events, and also very Te business places... and also Heteronormative Churches with soccer moms, and gay sex places, woodland campsites, and liberal feminist rallies, drag shows, back alley raves, quiet pubs/trendy & uppity bookstores.

    I didn't even really even like one place over the other, I feel like I'm everywhere. My Fi was broken in this sense. I never felt like I belonged anywhere but I never felt totally excluded either.

    I will say one place I hated for sure was NASCAR races lol. I can only say that for certain, that is the place I hated the most I went to- but everything else, I was just eh about.... I think I hated them because the person there was like so into them that it repulsed me, as to me it was just really trashy and weird.

    I guess I'd say I liked when a lot of ppl were walking outside together or something, but not one specific inside place. I think I subconsciously feel inside places should be for individuals or small tight-knit groups .... part of why I really disliked school. Public school and NASCAR races... two thumbs down. Everything else is just ambivalency. I'd love to find a place I really enjoy and can't leave. So far it hasn't happened.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aster View Post
    Places with lewd/loud/obnoxious people. Usually places with large groups of people. And if I am there, I’ll be hanging on the fringes.
    Same. Sporting events, bars, clubs, loud parties. Those kinds of places are soul-killing.

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    it would be faster for me to answer where I actually go to.

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    I hate hanging, I prefer exploring. Hanging is for dead people with nowhere to go.

    But I do avoid most places.

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    Life. Jk, anywhere I have a higher chance of dying or using up my resources with no gain in return if I go, actually. Or places with a high thot to person ratio.

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    Or places with a high thot to person ratio.


    I feel like I should already know this, so forgive me - but can you describe a THOT for me in better detail @sbbds? Is it similar to a 'Stacy?' I understand what Chad Thundercocks are obviously, and the Stacys that date them etc but what are the differences between thots and Stacys?

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    you'll never find me at any kind of sporting event, for sure

    or bars for that matter. unless i get dragged out lol

    i actually very rarely leave the house
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    Quote Originally Posted by BandD View Post

    I feel like I should already know this, so forgive me - but can you describe a THOT for me in better detail @sbbds? Is it similar to a 'Stacy?' I understand what Chad Thundercocks are obviously, and the Stacys that date them etc but what are the differences between thots and Stacys?
    For me, a thot can be male too. Just, people who desire to be ratchet and hedonistic, with no discrimination or taste at all whatsoever. They aren't necessarily Se types, but they fit the stereotypical concept of Se valuing lol.

    I think becoming a THOT often arises from being overly sheltered growing up. They want to taste the STDs, dirt and freedom on their tongue once and for all, from 1000 gonhorroid gooches at the same time. Some people seem to be thots from birth to death though. Also one can appear to be like Chads and Stacies, but in their hearts or clear for all to see from their actions soon enough, they're just big thots who just want to drink and have physical stimulation and be super scandalous and petty.

    So in summary, a thot is basically a Chad or Stacy (or actually any person really, because often they aren't cool or conventionally attractive in any way whatsoever), without a soul or meaningful life goals. For me personally, I see it as anyone who is petty, annoying and low quality.

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