so this ENFj girl has a crush on me.. an INTj (semi-duality)

[FDG]

I'm rather confused now. I've given her plenty of times to converse to me, plenty of times to flirt with me, etc. You name it.

Nonetheless, she hasn't taken any of my offers.

On the other hand, she still loses her center of balance around me, finds herself monitoring her reactions when I am around, is completely surprised when I show up, and acts shy around me.

I am beginning to wonder if she is angry at me - she used to wave at me and try to initiate flirting with me a lot, and being a socially retarded INTJ, I didn't pay much attention.

What causes an ENFJ to lose attraction, anyways?

Probably you need to shove her on a wall and start making out with her without "asking her out".

[JohnSmith]

I'm rather confused now. I've given her plenty of times to converse to me, plenty of times to flirt with me, etc. You name it.

Nonetheless, she hasn't taken any of my offers.

On the other hand, she still loses her center of balance around me, finds herself monitoring her reactions when I am around, is completely surprised when I show up, and acts shy around me.

I am beginning to wonder if she is angry at me - she used to wave at me and try to initiate flirting with me a lot, and being a socially retarded INTJ, I didn't pay much attention.

What causes an ENFJ to lose attraction, anyways?

Probably you need to shove her on a wall and start making out with her without "asking her out".

Explain the last reference.

[Expat]

If she's an ENFj and she likes you and could see a romantic relationship developing, she expects you to act like an Aggressor in that area. Which means being forceful.

[lefty]

I'm rather confused now. I've given her plenty of times to converse to me, plenty of times to flirt with me, etc. You name it.

Nonetheless, she hasn't taken any of my offers.

On the other hand, she still loses her center of balance around me, finds herself monitoring her reactions when I am around, is completely surprised when I show up, and acts shy around me.

I am beginning to wonder if she is angry at me - she used to wave at me and try to initiate flirting with me a lot, and being a socially retarded INTJ, I didn't pay much attention.

What causes an ENFJ to lose attraction, anyways?

YOu know i still think its the fact that both types are primarily ES. Its like there is nobody to conquer and nobody to be conquered. They equalize. Both are horny, both want good sex, both want compantionshipo, but they way the sensing is misalighned makes it an akward pairing. the ESFJ would be all over you if she wanted to be and youd be happy to respond because the sensing is properly allocated opposiing the other.