Share your stories and experiences with IEIs-INFps

[Hector]

Usually very good relations overall with the females INFp-s. Very fun to hang out with, and some of the funniest dates as well. I don't have the willingness to put up with the games and troubles necessary to start a relationship with them, though. Relations with male INFps have ranged from extremely good to annoyance on both sides. The key variable is how much the given INFp has conformism issues. If they are present, then I will not get along with them; if they aren't, I will.

Wait a moment. Aren't INFp's supposed to be your dual?

[discourse]

I think that how you are geting along with some type depends a lot on if that person is he or she. People from one type, but from different sexes, can be very unsimilar.

My relations with INFps haven't been good. I like ENFjs more. These two are very similar, but things run out better with ENFjs. Because ENFjs are more stable and predictable. If you need a one to make you a favour, she'll do it. But INFps on the other hand, in the begining will start helping you and end up doing something else, like suddenly going to a vacation into another city, just when you needed him. Yeah, sure. He phoned you last night that he'll be there. Doing with you some stuff. But when you'll call him again in the morning, he's gone into somewhere else. Talk about irrationality with . And as a PoLR. But you'll forgive him he's choppy behaviour, because he always knows how to work things out with you again. Talk about creative. Plus they dress well all the time. Talk about role.

[ScarlettLux]

[quote="jsb'07"]I think that how you are geting along with some type depends a lot on if that person is he or she. People from one type, but from different sexes, can be very unsimilar.

My relations with INFps haven't been good. I like ENFjs more. These two are very similar, but things run out better with ENFjs. Because ENFjs are more stable and predictable. If you need a one to make you a favour, she'll do it. But INFps on the other hand, in the begining will start helping you and end up doing something else, like suddenly going to a vacation into another city, just when you needed him. Yeah, sure. He phoned you last night that he'll be there. Doing with you some stuff. But when you'll call him again in the morning, he's gone into somewhere else. Talk about irrationality with . And as a PoLR. But you'll forgive him he's choppy behaviour, because he always knows how to work things out with you again. Talk about creative. Plus they dress well all the time. Talk about role.[/quote]

LMAO ... 100% true. Especially the part I bolded: not many people realize this is due to insecurity rather than a good fashion sense hahaha...

[posablethumb]

the INFp I met was a total meanie. when i started opening up to her, she stopped using her Fe on me. i felt ill for a bit after that.

oh and after that, i just started ignoring her too, and she got pissed off. lol, is this a common thing for INFps?

[Ms. Kensington]

INTjs are "too" for an INFp and an INFp is "not enough" for the INTj. Typical with J/P

[Khamelion]

My views on INFp...most seem stuck-up, and mostly in a stupidly stubborn way.

[Blaze]

My views on INFp...most seem stuck-up, and mostly in a stupidly stubborn way.

yeah i could see this...i've known a couple infp's kinda like this.

i've had extended experience with 2 male infp's. one, the boyfriend (ha, when younger) and the newest is "the man" since we don't say "my boyfriend" when we're in our forties, lol.

they need their time alone, like to the nth degree. it's not that clear what they do with this time....i think they think about all kinds of stuff while they putter around with whatever hobby they have. they are quite polite and diplomatic. easy to get along with. the man will talk about anything and is even interested in everything i am except for when i like to have funny conversations about life's minutia. the boyfriend didn't talk all that much and was a lot more passive agressive. he'd let me take the lead and then do the opposite or some such. the man just takes me on which is a good thing since i have a strong personality. they've got a "fuck the man" kind of attitude and are definitely individualistic.

they seem like they need a lot of sleep or something. more than i do for sure. they're pretty laid back and with the flow.

i don't mind female infp's either, with the exception of one in the world. the females seem like they kind of like to run in the middle of the popular crowd or something. they seem a lot busier and more energetic than male infp's. they're pretty conscientious and do a thorough job. also style conscious. sometimes they're bitchy but WTF some times being a bitch is all a woman's got to hold on to, to quote dolores claiborne.

[raisonpure]

I think that how you are geting along with some type depends a lot on if that person is he or she. People from one type, but from different sexes, can be very unsimilar.

My relations with INFps haven't been good. I like ENFjs more. These two are very similar, but things run out better with ENFjs. Because ENFjs are more stable and predictable. If you need a one to make you a favour, she'll do it. But INFps on the other hand, in the begining will start helping you and end up doing something else, like suddenly going to a vacation into another city, just when you needed him. Yeah, sure. He phoned you last night that he'll be there. Doing with you some stuff. But when you'll call him again in the morning, he's gone into somewhere else. Talk about irrationality with . And as a PoLR. But you'll forgive him he's choppy behaviour, because he always knows how to work things out with you again. Talk about creative. Plus they dress well all the time. Talk about role.

So sadly true. Except for the role.