This acquiantance of mine really bothers me alot:
-clumsy. Eg. tends to hit her last toe against the edge of the wall corner and couldn't catch a ball.
-likes to complain and seems to be stuck in the past. Very bothered about the mistakes she had done in the past to the
extent that she couldn't function well and enjoys bringing them up periodically.
-likes people but not a sociable person. prefer others to approach her.
-homely and enjoys indulging in self pity.
-self-centered. always bothered about her own problems.
-does not seem to be good at anything, be it academic, sports, music etc. She is depressed over it.
-daily activities are doing the usual stuff such as watching TV, surfing the net, eating etc. When I advised her to take up new hobbies, she claimed that she seems to be bad at everything she does and therefore had lost motivation to learn anything new.
-healthy lifestyle. Doesn't smoke, drink or eat unhealthy food. Only thing unhealthy about her is she doesn't exercise 'cos she is conscious of people noticing her lack of athleticism.
-doesn't go clubbing 'cos she thinks she is not cool enough to go there and feels that people would reject her.
-complains that there isn't much going on in her life, but afraid to make changes to her life 'cos of all the reasons above.
-doesn't seem to be interested in reading. Rejects reading books such as self-help books, novels etc., and she made a judgment that she isn't interested in them even before reading them. Doesn't even read her textbooks either.
-keeps thinking she's unattractive. likes to ask silly questions everyday about her looks for reassurance.