This semester I have worked for two ESFjs in different organizations. Both of them reacted them reacted to me , and I can see them going through their functional processes and wondering how they can do something nice for me or reward me, and them feeling somewhat bad because they don't know what to do, or feel I'm left out.
The problem is, when ESEs start talking that way or acting that way, I find it uncomfortable and awkward. I don't know if it is just a personal reaction to it or what, or of it is a certain part of the alpha rational duality. It is as though I am earning something out of pity or something, which is somewhat insulting because I cannot stand such things. Or maybe I have a hard time with accepting someone being overtly nice. Even though I appreciate Fe and such, and FeSi I believe, there is something about it that I am uneasy about.
Perhaps it is some sort of dual type of interaction in general.
How do you feel when your dual uses their ego block functions on/towards you?