If you don't mind my saying so... I've experienced far, far more of you wanting relationships to be reasoned than anything else. You do wonder about the reasons for things I post sometimes, but I wouldn't say that I've seen Ti > Te. If anything, your style of speech is efficient above all else. I'd say that looks more like Te > Ti.Originally Posted by Ms. Kensington
Lemme ask you this... Would you rather have:
1.) Your coworkers and acquaintances be familiar and warm with you, seeing you as someone in favorable social standing and giving your ideas for how to change social norms consideration because of your favorable social standing and trusting your judgment about complex situations because you have vast structured knowledge on the subject at hand, a better understanding of it's complexities than they have or really have any reason to have.
or
2.) Your coworkers and acquaintances treating you with professionalism, not expecting you to take part in warm, superficial, casual conversation, not giving your social standing consideration but instead seeing you as someone who knows how to work efficiently, so they pretty much just allow you to do that. Instead of having a large network of friendly acquaintances who think well of you from a social perspective, you're pretty much off the social radar and instead have several very close friends who do not expect warm, superficial conversation but instead skip the friendly small talk because it is entirely unnecessary. Your few close friends are trustworthy and loyal beyond any doubt, and they know that you are just as trustworthy and loyal to them.
Hmmmm I hope I haven't exaggerated those descriptions too much or made one sound "better" than the other because the idea is for some people to prefer the first and others to prefer the second.