Originally Posted by
CuriousSoul
For what it is worth, my current status as "probable ESFJ" represents my best current understanding of socionics and is contingent on many variables, such as my understanding of socionics being correct, the typings of Dioklecian being accurate, the relevance and accuracy of Smilexian Socionics, etc. I do not think it is currently possible to know one's type for sure - but it can be worthwhile to adopt and play with different identities.
Let's not include Dio's typings as primary evidence, okay?
He's an interesting person, raises interesting points, and can be very interesting to have a conversations with, but his typings (on his admission) are more intended to spark debate than to be a primary source of what mainstream Socionics says. I'd recommend Rick's and Dmitri's typings just mainly because of their knowledge of the Socionics community, so at least we get a clear sense of what "mainstream Socionics" may be like, and then once we understand that we can know what we're tearing to shreds when we do so.
But anyhow, I agree with you...all those parameters come into play. The fact that I never assume that either my understanding of Socionics or Socionics itself is accurate surely complicates things.
Hence I'm left with "I'm this if I consider this set of definitions, but I'm that if I consider this other set of definitions." Labcoat has even included in his signature his type based on classical, Tcaudian, and I think even Smilexian Socionics.
BTW, so what led you to consider ESFj > INFj? It's kind of hard to tell on a forum...not much info to go on just from posts.