Originally Posted by
pandagirl
Now here's the confusing part. He broke up with me after a month stating: "You're amazing, smart, funny, interesting, beautiful and I'm very attracted to you, but...there is something intangible missing when I'm with you." I then learned about his past loves and they all seemed to stem from an intense passion and lust for the woman. He's been "in love" five times, but only two of those were relationships. The others were unrequited loves.
Is this common for estps? For them to only view love in a fast and furious way? I tend to let my feelings develop, based on trust and friendship