Quote Originally Posted by silke View Post
5. 2. The second surprise. The most uncomfortable relation turns out to be not Conflicting one, but the relations of Superego. This is explained by the balancing of the intro-static temperament of Relations of Conflict in Socionics. Conflictors can be ignored for some time. Superego partner perceives your actions as deliberate creation of inconveniences and discomfort. Your actions towards him or her are interpreted in the same manner, which starts a vicious circle of mutual complaints. Thus, remember that superego is for you the most uncomfortable partner at close communication distances.
this is all entirely true in my experience, when i have had to deal with SLIs at a close distance for an extended period of time, whether psychologically, emotionally, and/or physically. Conflict relations are also pretty bad, but in a way there can still be some "balancing out" since one is Introverted and the other is Extraverted, you have differing strengths, and IME you can still get along superficially for short periods of time. maybe there's something about sharing a temperament with your Superego that contributes to the conflict, i.e. the feeling that they are being deliberately annoying and trying to sabotage you.