I'm an entp married to an isfj husband. I know we are not supposed to work, but it does. Sometimes, I do feel like we are from different planets, but we accept that we are different and let it be, and when we pull together it is great. He is my favorite person to be with (unless work is driving me nuts) in which I shut down (from everyone.) I admit there are times when I wish he could brainstorm with me (he thinks of the worse case scenario immediately) but I sense he is just trying to take care of me in his way and I love that he loves me. I had great chemistry with isfp's and intj's in the past, but it never worked long term. Anyone else defy the rules?