I was chatting with my INTp friend online yesterday and we came to the topic about her ESTp boyfriend. Both of us noticed that he seemed to be quite defensive and avoidant of me whenever a group of us went out together. He had been feeling this way since we first met and I haven't even talked to him before. It surprised me that a conflicting relation was evident even before any real conversation was involved.
Anyway, I'm curious to know what an ESTp thinks of an INFj in general based on first impression and subsequent interactions, and how the conflicting relation is manifested overtime. I will talk about mine later.
To everyone else, feel free to talk about your experience with your conflictor. Need not be restricted to negative experiences.