ISFJs make me feel bad, inadequate or something

[Socionics Is A Cult]

i find it straight up fucking retarded when people expect other people to be in a good mood all the time, much like joy has stated.

It's the inconsistency that gets me (though all types have their weak areas - maybe Gamma SF types find Alpha NT types too consistent, or indecisive in matters, and as you can probably guess, that doesn't make sense to me ).

IMO the last thing you want to do with is attach it to - they act attack you for pointing out their inconsistencies, and attack you for being logically consistent (though you can never guess how they are going to respond - I prefer to act in a consistent manner, so I don't look like a hypocrite).

[Joy]

Are you certain this girl isn't ESFp?

[Socionics Is A Cult]

My mother...yes I'm sure. I've had at least two teachers who were ISFjs too...they're a lot more negative than ESFps (they also have a cynical intelligence too).

[Dioklecian]

My mother...yes I'm sure. I've had at least two teachers who were ISFjs too...they're a lot more negative than ESFps (they also have a cynical intelligence too).

YEs I wouldagree, however ESFPs can be very very basic (as in basic instinct), purely savage at times.

[Dioklecian]

ISFJs are hypercritical, thats' becayse they want your Fe, and your Si, all of them. Have you noticed how at times ISFJs just stare at people for long periods?

[jessica129]

I generally feel uncomfortable around most F types...I get the "there's something wrong with you" vibe from them. As if they're silently judging me. Obviously more so with FJ's. I just feel as if I have to constantly watch what I say...wouldn't want them running off into a corner and crying or holding a grudge against me for years.

[Exodus]

ISFJs are hypercritical, thats' becayse they want your Fe, and your Si, all of them. Have you noticed how at times ISFJs just stare at people for long periods?

Yeah, they do have creepy stares. It's almost like the death stare, but it's more like they're trying to mess with your head or something.

[Dioklecian]

ISFJs are hypercritical, thats' becayse they want your Fe, and your Si, all of them. Have you noticed how at times ISFJs just stare at people for long periods?

Yeah, they do have creepy stares. It's almost like the death stare, but it's more like they're trying to mess with your head or something.

Yeah exactly, they do try to mess with your head. I was wondering how and for what purpose?

[Exodus]

ISFJs are hypercritical, thats' becayse they want your Fe, and your Si, all of them. Have you noticed how at times ISFJs just stare at people for long periods?

Yeah, they do have creepy stares. It's almost like the death stare, but it's more like they're trying to mess with your head or something.

Yeah exactly, they do try to mess with your head. I was wondering how

Sexually, in part.

and for what purpose?

God only knows.


I do get along ok with some ISFjs, but it's never completely comfortable.

[Jimbean]

I generally feel uncomfortable around most F types...I get the "there's something wrong with you" vibe from them. As if they're silently judging me. Obviously more so with FJ's. I just feel as if I have to constantly watch what I say...wouldn't want them running off into a corner and crying or holding a grudge against me for years.

For me it is that exact same thing with types!

yeah I know how that feels.

[Jimbean]

back on ISFj's...

I think all it takes is a little know-how on how to deal with them. After that, ISFj's, or at least the ones I know, seem to be pretty straight foward.

I think the rule #1 is to be honest with them; that includes not being a pushover, but be nice.

[Creepy-Diana]

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[Joy]

<3

[implied]

don't break plans with them.

[implied]

ISFJs are hypercritical, thats' becayse they want your Fe, and your Si, all of them. Have you noticed how at times ISFJs just stare at people for long periods?

also. wtf? why does ISFj want someone's Fe and Si?

[discojoe]

ISFJs are hypercritical, thats' becayse they want your Fe, and your Si, all of them. Have you noticed how at times ISFJs just stare at people for long periods?

also. wtf? why does ISFj want someone's Fe and Si?

Because Dio has no idea what the fuck he's talking about, apparently.

[FDG]

ISFJs are hypercritical, thats' becayse they want your Fe, and your Si, all of them. Have you noticed how at times ISFJs just stare at people for long periods?

What does staring has to do with Fe and Si?