The ABCs of Tracy Pollan's Relationships
Tracy does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Tracy Pollan would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.
Tracy Pollan avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Pollan. The strong, silent partner is not for her.
Tracy Pollan may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Pollan has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Tracy Pollan wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Tracy is restless and something of a wanderer.
Pollan can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Tracy Pollan puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Pollan may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Tracy Pollan might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.
In addition to Tracy's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Tracy Pollan craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Pollan rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Tracy Pollan does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Pollan tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and her relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Tracy Pollan enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
Her thinking and acting are strongly influenced by her feelings. Tracy has great mental energy, is somewhat restless, curious and impatient, and at times she may need to slow down. Tracy Pollan loves debate and argument and also has good writing ability.
Sensitive and sentimental, Tracy Pollan is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Pollan to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Tracy Pollan seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Tracy likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Tracy Pollan very happy. Tracy wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Tracy Pollan may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Pollan is a natural host or diplomat.
Money is liable to be an issue in her life, not because she does not have it, but because Tracy Pollan cannot or will not hold onto it. Tracy Pollan has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget herself. At Pollan's worst, she wants an easy ride and friends will often let Tracy freeload because she is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Pollan could let other people take advantage of her hospitality and tolerance.
Pollan also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Tracy Pollan just wants to have a good time.
Tracy Pollan has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well-being. It is rare for Tracy to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Pollan. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Tracy Pollan to channel her passion.
Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Tracy Pollan is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.
She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Tracy Pollan should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".