but not a male one yet... still any ENFj friend would be great and I can learn from that. I totally had the "too good" reaction when I met her, she is the organiser of my son's playgroup and I straight off went "out of my league". So I was pleasantly surprised when she seemed really interested in us and asked us over for a play date. She is really, really nice and friendly, I was tired after I was with her but that could be because of other things, it's been a busy few days.