This is something I have noticed in myself and others several times and led to me seeing a connection between one's hidden agenda and the different things they are attracted to.
I first noticed this in my INFJ friend. My friend loves beautiful things. Especially women. He is obsessed with beautiful women and refuses to give anyone else a chance. He is the deepest guy ever but in that one area he is incredibly shallow, which he admits. His standards are so high that it is ridiculous. He also loves other beautiful objects such as clothes/cars/etc. He is looking for a sort of "perfect beauty" so to speak. He also loves food that is very fresh, and will throw away perfectly good food on the basis that it doesn't look fresh. I have noticed these tendencies in many other INFJs as well.
When I made the connection between my friends love of beauty and hishidden agenda I decided to examine whether there was a similar connection in myself. Sure enough, I realized that I am very attracted to
-ish objects - objects that convey power. I LOVE things like power business suits/big black sedans/impressive titles/weapons/etc.
My ISTJ friend lovesthings - stuff that is going to last a long time. I see this in ISFJs as well, they want durability over all else.
I had more examples but I just woke up and I can't remember them right now. This is just a theory, but I am interested in seeing if people on the forum see the same kind of attraction in themselves and others.


hidden agenda I decided to examine whether there was a similar connection in myself. Sure enough, I realized that I am very attracted to
-ish objects - objects that convey power. I LOVE things like power business suits/big black sedans/impressive titles/weapons/etc.
things - stuff that is going to last a long time. I see this in ISFJs as well, they want durability over all else.
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matters? Like for positive emotions?

Not sure how that really manifests itself. I like nerd/geeks? I really am attracted to intellectuality I suppose.. almost to the point of acting as a pseudointellectual myself ... I am drawn to those that provide an air of wisdom.. that seem to be able to explain things well to me if I asked, and can provide conversation for me...



