The INTj I was with sent me a few text messages from a club... apparently he wants to hook up with someone but it's pretty dead there tonight.
me: Look for an ESFj. They're the ones who are loud and sociable and friendly and talk a lot with their hands.
him: but those girls intimidate me and make me want to cower and hide, im never myself to them. they only see scared traumatized me..
me: They think it's adorable. Making people feel emotionally and physically comfortable is what they're best at. They just love having someone to take care of. All they want from you is to talk about whimsical and intelligent things and appreciate the stuff they do for you, such as practical day to day shit.