I'm an EIE-ni, my best friend is LSI-se and has autism. I've been trying to understand him a bit better because he does some things that really confuse me.
For example: he gets mad quite easily, but never stays mad for longer than a few days. He also never actually expresses his anger. I'm often only able to pick up on it because he is acting somewhat coldly toward me and his atmosphere/aura(?) seems tense. Maybe it's my Fe that allows me to do this. Anyways, I always like to know what I did wrong when a friend is mad because I value my friendships and want to do better. However, my LSI friend never actually tells me what I did wrong. Another thing he does is he becomes offended if I say any specific phrases that he often uses.
Even though he becomes offended so easily, he has no discretion in doing things or saying things that may cause someone else to have a similar reaction. He usually takes a bit of care into not making any of his close friends (myself included) mad, though.
Is this an LSI thing? Please tell me what you think, especially if you're an LSI .