At this point, for the last 2-3 weeks we've had almost no misunderstandings, our relationship is pretty stable. I confess it got me thinking she's maybe getting detached or losing interest? She's never been a great expressive person in terms of affection, and now everything is extremely even.
That turnaround happened after a series of hard talks that we had last month, and she told me she has a lot of things to work on herself, and told me that I help her become better without even trying, and this is mutual, but sometimes not having discussions can signal lack of care.
I'm not the type to be overthinking things, we still talk a lot everyday and sometimes past the healthy point, but something just seems off.
She also seems more prone to be talking non stop, and I have noticed a few changes in her behavior. She also started telling very personal things, even disgusting at times.
I still trust her 100% and her word. I've learned with her to be more accepting of what people say instead of just trying to guess and infer. She told me she doesn't need to tell how much she loves someone, the person has to trust her on that, and differently from me, her interests (on someone) don't change a lot, she's the most stable, and reliable person I know. Maybe I have to accept the new her that is flourishing, maybe we're on cocoon state so that something bright might come out.
We still have had a great week, and maybe our previous arguments were actually a slight sign of lack of trust.
She asked me yesterday if she told me she was pregnant from the holy spirit, if I would believe her, I said I would..after pondering for a few seconds (lol to that)
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