Notes on my experience with duality

[Hermes Trismegistus]

The fun will start when you'd try to do something together with your producing functions - you'll have endless conversations by Fi and Te.

In fact, our longest conversations tend to revolve around feelings, values and logic. Ne and Si are conversation starters, and how we exchange our most valued information through books, movies, songs, etc.

And by the way, watch your negativism, there is no such thing in classical socionics, but it seems to me that the signs of the functions of duals change. That is, you may begin to see more positive opportunities, but also notice more flaws in people.

This is already happening. I'm seeing flaws in others like never before. I'm also losing a little sense of what it is like to adapt to others. I noticed I'm starting to act way too spontaneous around others, and sometimes it is causing awkwardness, then I remember not everyone (practically no one) is a dual.


Thanks for your input!

[FDG]

I think losing track of time while talking might be more a duality thing. I also lose track of time as a Ni type, blinking and the sun has set, blinking again and it's re-risen..

Ftr just as comparison, i never lose track of time. I didn't know other people do, sometimes it's also unnerving, like i may wake up while sleeping due to some noise and i will guess what time is it and how much i can still sleep etc

[EIE H]

Ftr just as comparison, i never lose track of time. I didn't know other people do, sometimes it's also unnerving, like i may wake up while sleeping due to some noise and i will guess what time is it and how much i can still sleep etc

i am oddly pretty similar. Unless I am significantly sleep deprived, I almost always wake up before the alarm goes off. For me, I think wearing a wearing a watch almost 24/7 for nearly 20 years made me even more acutely aware of time.

[Hermes Trismegistus]

Duality can seem other worldly. I'm just not used to receiving infinite attention and appreciation without having to do anything besides my natural mental capabilities. Our relationship is progressing even more, and the more time passes, the more it seems we are the same soul split in different bodies. It seems like a contradiction, cause we are completely different and completely similar at the same time. It's like the difference between hot and cold, they are the same thing (levels of heat or levels of vibration), even though they manifest differently. Funny thing is, even though we match perfectly, she has always lived near me, that is, at the neighboring city. I don't have much to say by now except that we're at the level of complete integration. I almost can't tell where the me ends and the her starts.

I just hope everyone experiences this at least once in their lifetime

[Hermes Trismegistus]

Funny thing is, I found the perfect duality when I wasn't looking for it. As a series of life events, we always ended up meeting each other, I took pictures with her then we didn't see each other for a long time until an instagram propaganda showed me her picture and I saved it. Then some months later she got my number by mutual contacts. I always knew she was somehow special. I didn't move a finger to have her in my life, and I don't believe in fate, but this just seems like a gift from heaven.

[Hermes Trismegistus]

She hates when I leave her, but she also hates If I wait for her to leave me. Today I forgot to reply her text message and she said I'm too scattered, and I said "why didn't you tell me this before?" I hate being called scattered, but for my surprise she said she thinks this is very good and makes her smile.

[Hermes Trismegistus]

Our conversations are very interesting and I love to talk to her, and I can't get enough of it, but doing things together is tenfold better. Even though we have discussed pretty much anything imaginable, I feel that we're still discovering new things about each other every day. But when we're doing something together, we can't help but let our truest selves shine and it feels like a fantasy or a Disney classic. I'd say our conversations tend to be rather constructive and sometimes they almost feel like a struggle of opposites. Of course, I like to make things playful, but the best of it all is that doing the most trivial things with her puts our compatibility on a pedestal.
At this point, we're becoming inseparable. I'm a little afraid I may become dependent and addicted. This experience feels like a free fall, and it's been accelerating to dangerous levels.

[Hermes Trismegistus]

We talked for 2h30 in the morning over phone then I missed her again at night and we talked for another 2 hours. She said she feels like she doesn't want to stop talking to me. I'm glad this feeling is mutual. I think this is unlikely to cool off over time. I think for the first time in my life, I feel like I don't get enough of something over time. The more we talk, the more we feel closer and the more we want to talk.
I think we'll have to move in together very soon lol

It's been 7 months now since we started seeing each other, and things have started getting insanely good in the last 2 months. And getting better over time.