Is there any advantage to being sx first?

[Weenusflytrap]

I kinda hate being sx first. I get obsessions with people, have unrealistic fantasies, don’t know what appropriate boundaries are, and place too much importance on attractiveness so getting older is harder for me than for someone who doesn’t care about that. I think being sx 5 is especially lame because I want to share my inner world and no one cares. Is there anything good about the sx instinct?

[anotherperson]

I kinda hate being sx first. I get obsessions with people, have unrealistic fantasies, don’t know what appropriate boundaries are, and place too much importance on attractiveness so getting older is harder for me than for someone who doesn’t care about that. I think being sx 5 is especially lame because I want to share my inner world and no one cares. Is there anything good about the sx instinct?

you will always have motivation. sx types are the most determined of instinct types.

[Squirrel]

You will be closer to the people who are important to you than those who haven't developed their Sx instinct

[necrosebud]

You can have a magnetic vibe that pulls people in

all in, whatever or whoever it is - being passionate is not inherently negative. Having deep knowledge about X area is also not inherently negative

all or nothing approach - more likely to push the envelope - both negative or positive depends on the outcome

really wanting to “live” in the true sense of the word