Originally Posted by
Emily
Note : what you're about to read is written based on a personal experience with an IEI-Fe ( D Subtype )
I've met the good and the bad versions of many types , but the only type that I couldn't EVER stand dealing with when getting closer is IEI-Fe
While I enjoy EIE's company , their sense of humor a lot and when they use their Ne , on the other hand IEI-Fe are the worst type - with Subtype - I've ever dealt with
That's because they have the most annoying , disgusting and awful version of Te PoLR in the whole universe
Yes , SEIs have Te PoLR too , and I always end up being harsh on them unintentionally when they're too slow to learn when I teach them something ( although I'm patient in teaching when I see that the other person did - at least - a small part correctly )
Anyway , bac to the worst Te PoLR version :
Te PoLR ( with 1D Se of course ) makes them :
1- don't want to do any kind of physical activity , so they threw everything on you : going to the near market ? naah you do it instead ( and be ready to hear them blaming you if you don't mind going to buy what you want for yourself yet you refuse to bring them what they want ) , carrying a heavy bag even for a short period of time ? nooooooooo you do it instead , visiting someone ? no thanks home is better , etc
2- Don't want to learn any technical thing no matter how simple it is : you have to do everything for them starting from signing them up in any website they want - eg : Facebook , Gmail - although it's just some clicks followed by confirming your email , to charging their phones and updating its apps , yet they don't accept it when I try to teach them how to do it
3- Don't know what " saving " means : spending spending , consuming consuming, don't even think to think about using available resources in a good way , that's not their responsibility it's yours while all they have to do is to consume
4- want an easy life without doing daily things : unless they're working for their own dreams ( in case of D Subtype ) , unless it's something that supports humanity ( ngl I respect this part of them ) they prefer to let you work daily things so they do what they want , and in their worst scenarios they plan to become completely dependent on you and live on the results of your hard work without giving you anything in return , though this usually doesn't happen for a long time because they have Te+Si in Super ego block which means that they won't be comfortable at all when they relax and don't work for a long time
But seriously , Te PoLR isn't the scariest part of IEIs , what scares me more is their Fx when they use it against me
Since I'm a person who considers " House " to be the place where you rest , take care of yourself , enjoy food and relax from world's demands of you outside house , I don't always listen to them or care to do all their wishes ( I do some , but at a specific point I stop and tell them to take care of themselves because they can , I really want to teach them to be dependent a little but they refuse )
So , what happens after I refuse ? I say welcome to their " expert " usage of their Fx functions to defend themselves :
1- they either start talking about how much " selfish " and " self centered " I am , considering me like that and complain about me to everyone - including me -
2- or the worst , they manipulate me via feeding me some Ne , making a nice peaceful environment , then re-ask me to do what they want again after they made sure I'm satisfied now
ngl , I don't mind helping , I do it always when anybody in the family asks me to do something or teach them something , but I DON'T want it to be during my relaxing time