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    Default Examples of people being hit in their PoLR

    An SLE trying to logic his away out of an apology after carelessly “outting” his friend for views

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    thats just narcisssism (havnet watched the vid)
    https://linktr.ee/tehhnicus


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    i'm afraid it will hurt like hell, i am afraid of screaming and i am afraid of crying, i am afraid of forgetting but i'm not afraid of dying.




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    there's no good reason to think that PoLR is weaker than Role, or that functions within the blocks have any significant differences in role

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    actually i saw a bit more not sure i understood it all, but i tihnk the SLE was just saying, not like intending to be dismissive, while the ESI with Ne PoLR may be dismissing his explanations and thinking SLE is being manipulative. like xSI think whoever is trying to manipulate or hurt them on purpose bc it gives them a sense of security rather than believing someone just had different ideas about what was happening.
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    I want to care
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    HELLO??? COME BACK!!!!
    i'm afraid it will hurt like hell, i am afraid of screaming and i am afraid of crying, i am afraid of forgetting but i'm not afraid of dying.




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    Yeah I don't really get the context of the vid, but I guess he said something weird about that other's guys mom being abused. Didn't seem sorry about it. The tattoo guy is probably a horrible friend. But, the set is what offended me the most. Blanket nailed to the wall. Orange shag carpet. Black pleather casting couch. Then there are what look like doodles a 14 year old made in detention framed behind them. Truly horrific.

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    SLE doing cruel things to their family to jeopardize their good standing with them
    SEE being paranoid about their relationships at work with subordinates cheating them or having at one point over estimated over praised or over evaluated them now trying to subject them to their will

    Here's EII and SEE relationships and she said it right:

    EII either deal very poorly with conflict by crying or by getting too wrapped up in it for too long, not physically but continuing to repeat the same thing over and over again, not dropping it or letting it go.

    https://youtu.be/VXHV0KmGRS4
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    Quote Originally Posted by VewyScawwyNawcissist View Post
    actually i saw a bit more not sure i understood it all, but i tihnk the SLE was just saying, not like intending to be dismissive
    The point is, he is being dismissive because he is trying to avoid Fi(and that could possibly be due to SLE having polr Fi)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lycantrope View Post
    The point is, he is being dismissive because he is trying to avoid Fi(and that could possibly be due to SLE having polr Fi)
    i dont know if hes avoiding it or blind to it
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    I want to care
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    i'm afraid it will hurt like hell, i am afraid of screaming and i am afraid of crying, i am afraid of forgetting but i'm not afraid of dying.




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    Something is off with that guy. Narcissist, sociopath, antisocial personality disorder, something.

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    Some people don't even get "hit". They can even disregard some of their issues and some of their duals and kinnies (as in Logical + Logical for example) would not even care if they die like that. It's basically "There is nothing wrong with you: Going beyond self-hate"/"Please understand me I & II" but from actual human source not Amazon

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    ILE- "I don't like you!"
    SLE- "You're up to no good!"
    ESI-" You are always confused!"
    SEE- "You're dumb!"
    IEE-"You're stupid!"
    LII-"You are clueless!"
    ESE-"You are soulless!"
    LSI-"You are not capable!"
    EII-"You're a weakling!"
    LSE-"You're a dunce!"
    EIE-"You are dirty!"
    LIE-"You have no life!"
    SEI-"You have no common sense!"
    SLI-"You are an embarrasment!"
    ILI-"You are mean!"
    IEI-" You live in your own world!"

    Etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lavos View Post
    ILE- "I don't like you!"
    SLE- "You're up to no good!"
    ESI-" You are always confused!"
    SEE- "You're dumb!"
    IEE-"You're stupid!"
    LII-"You are clueless!"
    ESE-"You are soulless!"
    LSI-"You are not capable!"
    EII-"You're a weakling!"
    LSE-"You're a dunce!"
    EIE-"You are dirty!"
    LIE-"You have no life!"
    SEI-"You have no common sense!"
    SLI-"You are an embarrasment!"
    ILI-"You are mean!"
    IEI-" You live in your own world!"

    Etc.
    Something about this list strikes me as being deeply sad.

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    And that, ladies and gentlemen, is what a narc looks like. Remember, it's a mental illness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Finaplex View Post
    And that, ladies and gentlemen, is what a narc looks like. Remember, it's a mental illness.

    Are you stupid (rhetorical question)?

    Why do you offend me gratuitously (I'm guessing you're an ILE)? Watch what you respond, because you might be the first person ever to make it into my ignore list.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lavos View Post
    Are you stupid (rhetorical question)?
    You might be... I was talking about the OP. Sorry you became confused and offended. I am also sorry I wasn't clear in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Finaplex View Post
    You might be... I was talking about the OP. Sorry you became confused and offended. I am also sorry I wasn't clear in the first place.
    Ignored.
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    k

    I can't fault a guy for trying to regain control after a perceived slight. I was talking about the OP.

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