Hi,
I've just now realized that people generally don't like being told they might be mistyped. It seems natural, considering: 1. People are usually offended when their beliefs are challenged and 2. "How could you know me better than I do?". The offense taken would supposedly be in proportion to the degree to which the (false) belief constitutes the person's identity. Anyhow, people don't seem to like it. I've sensed this for a while, but now it seems pretty much confirmed.
The thing is: The people I encounter IRL, who know of typology, usually derive their type solely from the 16p test... and they're often seemingly wrong. I really enjoy discussing typology, but I feel the discussion becomes somewhat unpleasant when suggesting someone might be mistyped.
How would one ideally go about telling someone they might be mistyped? Should one do it, at all? "Don't argue with idiots" -- but I, myself, was mistyped for years, so that'd make me an idiot. So, they're not idiots, they're simply mistyped. Should one, e.g. if they think they're IEI and they're probably EIE, coddle them Fe-wise with statements along the lines of "IEI's have these weaknesses, I admire EIE's for yadayada, etc."? I really don't know...
I'm sure people on this forum have encountered similar situations, so what do you think about this?
Thank you for reading. ^^