"Is it common for them to be a little rude and imposing in giving advice? "
Honestly, yes. Ni is terribly uncertain.... until it isn't. Once it's certain, it takes some serious Se barrage to penetrate.
Especially IEIs. We are 4D Ni/Fi. The one thing we are sure about is (interpersonal) advice. IEIs are just as aggressive as SLEs, only in the NF realm. So yes, imposing wouldn't be an incorrect description.
"Are they distrustful of emotions because of logic (at a certain degree)?"
I'm not sure how accurately I can answer this as a 4. My flaw is to unconsciously identify with my emotions as indicative of reality. I can say that I used to be ashamed of my emotions, causing me to try to erase them.
"I feel a lot constructivist because rewatch, re-play and re-listen the same things even after 15 years and every year."
Maybe you're an obsessive weirdoooo
Nah. I'm definitely like this. It could just as much be a pattern as it could be a coincidence, though, so I wouldn't think too hard about it.
Reinins are something to pay attention to once you've typed yourself, IMO. They're too subtle to be useful for typing people IMO..
"IEIs in general seems more opened to novel things and they have a certain "artist rage" when showing Se, while my Se seems more strong but controlled. "
I have no idea what you mean by artist rage. I also think this is a pretty broad blanket statement.
"people says I'm more logical rather than a feeler, and some of them fear to argue with me because I shoot facts."
I don't know how old you are, but I must say that you remind me a lot of my younger self. I had this stage when I largely tamped down on Fe in favor of Ti. My Ti base friend described me as too logical when approaching emotional things. Socionics was actually what made me realize that my feelery qualities weren't a weakness, but a strength.
9's tend to be extremely mistyped. You strike me as a gut type, as well with this undercurrent of desiring harmony. I mean "harmony" in the Enneagrammatic sense.
You like to think things through in a very logical manner. You may be inclined to view yourself as primarily logical, but you're a feeler. Ti "hidden agenda". You ask so many questions. That's wonderful. They aren't even often questions that are necessary to the topic at hand, it's just that you would like to know. You have an insatiable thirst for things to make sense to you. The difference is that you seek this from outside, not from within because you are still not quite a Ti ego type.
You are quite verbose and quasi-rambley. It's like you are skirting around a few single points you're trying to make, yet can't quite explicitly directly hit at them. This is why you dualize with a SeTi type. You will love how they suddenly make everything make sense, how they bluntly hit so crystal clear with their observations. I can spot the Se suggestive by your reaction to when I confidently, yet rather bluntly, told you what type I thought you were, after jerkishly ignoring your previous reply that you clearly put a lot of thought into (sorry). It wasn't even neutral, you got kind of happy =) Cue the Ti HA stepping in, questions, questions, you ask me for more information so that YOU can mull through it and come to a decision on your own. Clearly Ti isn't 1D. You still expect some logical autonomy: Don't tell me what to think. Just guide me.
Also, I think deep down you know he's SLE, you just want someone to make you sure about it =) Very IEI!