Recently someone I believe to be an SEE-D seems to be showing interest In me. She's not exactly my cup of tea for a long term relationship, but we met in an environment that would facilitate things; was a party between mutual friends. She had seen me sing 2 songs during karaoke , and then we danced a bit. I'm an SEE-N and, I'm more composed and serious on the surface than she Is. I'm guessing that's what struck her fancy. I understand N and D is duality in DCNH. Has anyone else had a similar experience? I'd like to hear about it, along with other reasoning within the theory.