Hi everyone
To start off, I'm a SEE-Se and into what I think is an INFp-Ni guy.
We're attracted to each other but while the mutual feeling is there, we don't really get along. When we're together it's a bit quiet, with me asking him questions and trying to start some kind of conversation but he barely cooperates. It feels like I wanna get closer to him but I can't find a way to and I can't stand how stagnant things are, so I get frustrated and pick a fight/start drama about something to get some kind of emotional reaction out of him, while he sometimes does the same but with different actions.
After we argument, we feel drawn to each other again and make up pretty quickly, but at this point, it just happens too much and I'm afraid to lose him. So my question is, is there any good way to develop these relations? Feel free to correct me or ask me questions if it doesn't sound like a semi-dual relationship, I'm only like 70% sure of his type haha.