Can you type me... again? This time with questionnaire
I think most people prefer it if the questionnaire is simple and not too complex, while not being boring to read. So i'll put on parts, and other additions
I also think that i should not state my potential type earlier ( old post ) but start from zero, since it gives off some psychological effect that you're "probably that type and according the description you make, it closely resembles that" and makes it less likely for others to think of the other type. Correct me if I'm wrong
Also, i hope this is the last time where i post "type me". Hopefully...
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Part 1 :
1. What is beauty? What is love?
It's difficult to "think" about the textbook definition of those 2, but from my personal logic :
Beauty is a human perception towards things that has high value, and qualities. It could be environment, people, anything that creates a chemical reaction
of "happiness" in your chest
It gives us the feeling of awe, it makes us says "that's beautiful", it's pleasant.
It's subjective, but there's always an objective criteria that the general population agrees on
Love is a sense of longing, affection towards things, object or subject. It's deep and cannot be explained with logic without having to
think about it for a lot of time
2. What are your most important values?
I'm pretty sure it's Knowledge, Loyalty and Honesty
Knowledge is my key of understanding the world, it gives me confidence. Understanding and Questioning is something i value. Not knowing anything will kill me
Loyalty and Honesty is also important, since it's human nature to socialize.
3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
Yes i do, but I'm losing my faith. There's always a fallacy, invalid argument, lack of evidence, and logical inconsistencies everywhere about my religion
Fortunately, I'm open to any argument and empirical evidence that has value to change my stance.
I'm not an atheist, there's still faith down there deep inside
4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
I think that Countries / Nation states are led by self interests, so i couldn't care less about it. But war is already part of the world, you see ants also have wars. So i guess
it's important for the advancement of humanity as a whole
Power is also important, i suppose... I am indifferent about it
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
Mostly about life, society, philosophy and the required knowledge to pass on the current state of my life.
It sucks that there's strict rules and there's always limit of "free innovative thinking". People from my family just throw tradition and religion on it and said "you're not allowed to do that",
"what you think is not right" even though i was just stating the truth, which might be even false and I'm still open to any arguments,
but most of the time they just do not care and called me disrespectful ( though i can see why, so I'm sorry, but i wished you could've atleast listened to me so we can reach an understanding ).
[ Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed.
- Friedrich Nietzsche ]
Part 2 :
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
Maybe... Not really
But if it's important or it has some interesting point / ideas from science, i would be interested
7. What do you think of daily chores?
Mundane, boring work, exhausting. Unless i have to, then i will.
8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
Not really. I just read articles, and in terms of films or movies I'm pretty indifferent, Though the entertainment is surely pleasant and it can bring me inspiration, while also giving me new
perspective in life.
9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
Cry / Hurt : Unfairness in this world. There are someone who's born lucky, and some are not. Hope that never came, Curse that came upon them instead. Hardwork that can't beat talent
if talent works hard. And the mystery of the universe we might never discover.
Smile : Positive comfortable, fun interactions, and someone who cares for me, someone who brings me comfort, someone who understands me, someone that can connect to me.
It makes me more positive towards life overall, i guess relationships is important after all...
10. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
I wish i had more confident in myself. I wish i don't have my severe anxiety problem in life. I wish i was more athletic. I wish i had more motivation and passion in life. And i wish i could think more clearly
Those are definitely my weaknesses, and i dislike it.
Part 3 :
11. What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?
Mostly about ethical, religion and tradition which happens often in my family.
We had different views towards the world, they see things from religious standpoint that everything we do is by god's will, fate and everything can be resolved by praying.
While i think that it's merely coincidence, and there has to be a scientific explanation and evidence for that, not even considering statistics, psychological effect and objective truths yet.
12. What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?
Both : Someone who's not judgmental, and when they do it's all about constructive criticism that helps me grow. Also loyalty and can be relied upon.
Romantic relationship : Someone who's committed their love to me, assertive and make their intentions clear. That's the most important thing, in return we will reach
a deeper understanding and develop comfort on each other's presence, make each other grow and fulfill each others weaknesses. A mutual benefitting relationship.
13. What are your strengths? What do people like about you? What do you like about yourself?
Since willpower and physical activities is my weak point, i tend to rely on my analytical abilities and intuition for most problems.
What do people like about me? Well, I'm fun to hang around and not really judgmental, we have fun by laughs and jokes.
14. What things do you dislike doing? What things do you enjoy more than others?
Dislike : I hate doing something if i were "told" to do, even if it's important. I would do it if it makes logical sense, NOT because of ethical reasons.
Enjoy : I enjoy philosophical and intellectual discussions, though i have low self esteem about it.
15. How do you behave around strangers?
Most of the time i am quite reserved and introverted, does not talk much and just watch. I am careful and cautious around people, but if i met someone that "clicks" with me, oh i will go crazy to no end.
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Note : sorry for the wrong grammar here and there
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