Results 1 to 6 of 6

Thread: Se seeking doesn't sound like me so.., what could be my type?

  1. #1
    HOOOOOOOOOT Ahmed LadAhmed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2021
    Location
    Moon
    TIM
    Tomato
    Posts
    62
    Mentioned
    5 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default Se seeking doesn't sound like me so.., what could be my type?

    I've been typed by people online as ILI, and I'm fairly certain that this is the closest that could get to describe my character.

    The thing is that Se just... is weird, sometimes I do admire people with great leadership and charisma but sometimes I just view them as complete douchebags who are too narrowminded and focused on getting "respect" that they sometimes miss the bigger picture, and I remember when I was a little kid my father always used to criticize my Se then I start to cry... then start criticizing me again for crying because according to him "crying is only for women and little children" but let's not get into that.

    in terms of my typing, I'm 100% sure I'm an NT because... well, I'm a smart nerd, and totally proud of this.

    other thing is that I'm quite empathetic and respect people with good ethics, I tend to neglect matters about my health but also respect people who put them as a priority, I reason a lot with deltas and I admire them more than betas, but still sometimes I feel myself too narrow-minded even when I claim to be the opposite.

    I also have very good Ti and Te, I'm extremely capable of teaching myself new nerdy stuff like theories and philosophies, I didn't rely on anyone to help me in school because I was able to grasp concepts very easily, but I don't want to show off like a mister-know-it-all! because this is not what the post is about (yes I am implying that I could talk about how smart I am in a post about it)

    and I'm also capable of understanding what someone is trying to see when I hear their argument, and sometimes I can read people's thoughts especially if they're close to me, like just by looking at a friend I can know that they don't wanna talk about a specific subject for whatever reason.

    sooooo this only leaves LII and ILI, I can relate to both of them at several occasions, but I tend to agree with ILIs more than with LIIs in a lot of matters.

    so what are your thoughts, I'd like to hear any idea even if it was criticism (not promising that I won't cry)

  2. #2
    twiggewed dewusional entitwed snowfwake VewyScawwyNawcissist's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2021
    Location
    uNdeR yOur SkIn
    TIM
    bNF 6w521 sx/sp VELF
    Posts
    2,354
    Mentioned
    106 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    i dont think not liking assholes makes u not like Se. its true many Se ppl are assholes tho, maybe in different ways and extremities. i talked down on sensors a lot and its very deserved as a generalization in my opinion. not all sensors are bad and those who are are not all bad allegedly but ive experienced and seen others experience it too much; i was just telling someone how my IEE friend told me the Se egos in our previous class were pushing him around and laughing in a corner. even some Se egos will tell u they hate arrogant ppl, and will call them out and fight them, ofc someimtes thats themselvs being arrogant and projecting.

    theres nuance with what u perceive as arrogance as well soemone can just be mad and temporarily behave like a douchebag but be sorry later, but i dont like it when they escalate it just bc they feel a certain way, and thats not a Se exclusive thing, may not even be a Se inclined thing, Si egos in my life too havent been short on aggression or control from the Se egos. they are just more sly about it.
    its just a fact to me, physical aggression, neglect, coercion and control tactics in my life have been effectively utilized more often by sensors.
    "crying is only for women and little children"
    the LIEs i know that kind of thought like that, both were extremely axnious and traumatised, and one of them was somewhat of a sociopath. there have been some nazi Se egos like that as well. there was an ESTP female post here about how she had to be tough her whole life and wanted to be vulnerable with someone. tough mind mentality is often bad. its useful in some situations to not let the wrong emotions make u weak, but ppl turn that into something ugly and harmful.
    Your face makes your brain and sociotype – how muscle use shapes personality
    I want to care
    if I was better I’d help you
    if I was better you’d be better
    HELLO??? COME BACK!!!!
    i'm afraid it will hurt like hell, i am afraid of screaming and i am afraid of crying, i am afraid of forgetting but i'm not afraid of dying.



  3. #3
    Seed my wickedness Sanguine Miasma's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2015
    Location
    Spontaneous Human Combustion
    TIM
    EIE-C-Ni ™
    Posts
    7,566
    Mentioned
    321 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    I don't think this really rules out ethics as you already described going in both ways. So I would keep that one open too.
    MOTTO: NEVER TRUST IN REALITY
    Winning is for losers

     

    Sincerely yours,
    idiosyncratic type
    Life is a joke but do you have a life?

    NO Private messages, please. Use Discord instead.

  4. #4
    HOOOOOOOOOT Ahmed LadAhmed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2021
    Location
    Moon
    TIM
    Tomato
    Posts
    62
    Mentioned
    5 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Sanguine Miasma View Post
    I don't think this really rules out ethics as you already described going in both ways. So I would keep that one open too.
    Please elaborate, also weren't you typed as ILE before?

  5. #5
    Seed my wickedness Sanguine Miasma's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2015
    Location
    Spontaneous Human Combustion
    TIM
    EIE-C-Ni ™
    Posts
    7,566
    Mentioned
    321 Post(s)
    Tagged
    2 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by LadAhmed View Post
    Please elaborate, also weren't you typed as ILE before?
    Well, especially EIX types do not have logic as a break/PoLR function. Same applies to ethics for LIX. Something to consider. There is possibly even a draw towards suggestive under right sort of conditions. It seems like there are LIIs who write short stories, poems and such.

    I changed my type based on DarkAngelFireWolf69's typing and how he applied evidence which seemed patch every contradiction I had regarding my typing and after that I can not unsee it especially when I checked my video... lots of non verbal behavior (that does not seem Te at all) and Ni heavy stuff that do not apply to ILE.
    MOTTO: NEVER TRUST IN REALITY
    Winning is for losers

     

    Sincerely yours,
    idiosyncratic type
    Life is a joke but do you have a life?

    NO Private messages, please. Use Discord instead.

  6. #6
    HOOOOOOOOOT Ahmed LadAhmed's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2021
    Location
    Moon
    TIM
    Tomato
    Posts
    62
    Mentioned
    5 Post(s)
    Tagged
    0 Thread(s)

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Sanguine Miasma View Post
    Well, especially EIX types do not have logic as a break/PoLR function. Same applies to ethics for LIX. Something to consider. There is possibly even a draw towards suggestive under right sort of conditions. It seems like there are LIIs who write short stories, poems and such.

    I changed my type based on DarkAngelFireWolf69's typing and how he applied evidence which seemed patch every contradiction I had regarding my typing and after that I can not unsee it especially when I checked my video... lots of non verbal behavior (that does not seem Te at all) and Ni heavy stuff that do not apply to ILE.
    hmmmm, I mean yeah I did consider EII as a typing before, however I'm way still smarter than the average man in my place, not to say that EIIs are stupid but I just doubt me having 1D Te even if valued

    also I feel more inclined to sort people into individuals rather than groups (although I may sometimes slip and generalize when I shouldn't)

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •