Difference in how it manifest itself in both?
From what i saw so far and im more confident about
ILE FI result itself in them being too trusting at times.
SLE opposite they become too paranoid like thinking everyone is out to get them but they can kind of somewhat hide it and it fluctuate based on circumstances.
SLE seems to have easier time maintaining relationships as in letting you know you 2 are still in good terms keeping the right psychological distance but they will still need that reinsurance that you still love them too by not making any "mistakes" at all that's another part of the paranoid side.
ILE have this thing where they become cold to you suddenly like something is wrong they are more oblivious about the drastic shift in proximity. It can be very unsettling first times but after you get kind of used to it when you realize it's kind of a quirk and nothing personal. They can comeback to you minutes later being sociable again like nothing happened. Idk i got kind of used with one but others people always considered it weird for it and kept complaining about this attitude.
As for really the ethics aspect more like morality im not really sure about.
From what i saw SLE are more crual idk if its SE but like this the end justify the mean mentality i really despise it but again if im an LII im talking from an SE polr perspective so i might be biased, maybe it's just my experience too and it's not socionics related but the ones i saw really get a thrill on crushing others to come out on top sometimes it's really unnecessary imo there was no reason for it.
Now ILE i struggle to see what they do wrong exactly?
I don't see them really enjoying putting down others like i see some SLE do.
They can sometimes make an offensive joke too but the way they put it they are more considerate they won't really put you on the spot like a SLE.
Although they still can do it sometimes in an even more passive aggressive way than SLE i would say so maybe they are not the angels i seem to make them out to be but from my experiences it's very rare and even there it's more light idk.
Right or wrong is maybe not the good terms
But how do ILE annoy some of you exactly?