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    Quote Originally Posted by Fay View Post
    That is not my point, for example, I know a guy who was crazy in his early 20's. He used to hook up with a different girl every day, rid a motorcycle, plaid in a band, couldn't keep a job, because traditional work was too boring for him. Now, in his early 30's, he's nothing like that person anymore. He's got two kids, a stable office job, hates motorcycles, because he became an environmental activist and the only thing that resambles his old self is the fact that he listetns to heavy metal once a week.

    Another example, I know a girl who was extremelly introverted as a teen, she would blush and lose her voice everytime she had to speak in front of more than 2-3 people. She's in her late 20's now, lost tons of weight, got some therapy and now she's a team leader at an international company who leads a team of about 40 people and gives speaches at least once a week while enjoying that.

    Another example... A guy who used to listen to black metal when he was in his late teens/early 20's, a satanist who made fun and ridiciuled every positive emotional expression that ever crossed his way. Now in his late 20's turned to church and works for a non profit organization helping the homeless...

    How do you explain this with socionics?
    Functions are not only things that decide a person's behaviour. People can do the same thing and it look similar from the outside, but their motives could be different. And in your exambles, those people are just... grow up, There's no evidence that they act again their function.

    Don't mistake Functions with their stereotype, for exp: Fi polr are fucking immoral ruthless psychopath...

    I know an ILE, his Fi polr is like this: He's very naive about how differen people can't get along well with each other. With his Fe, he just think that everyone can easily get along, despite having different opinions when they debating somethings. He underestimate that the differences between people can make their relationship become harsh and dislike each other.

    Does he's has good relationship? Yes he does (with the right person). He's a likable guy, despite his personal issues.

    May be when he get more information, he'll get better understanding about that. But in the end, it's not his focus, he's just a guy who want everyone get along with each other in a fucking Alpha enviroment.

    The amount of information an person have increases overtime, so of course the behaviour and mindset changes overtime. But there's something that not likely change: their DNA, and socionics is more close to that (I don't say socionics is at the same level, just an example). Just like a computer, you could download and setup manything as posible, but in the end, the hardware is still the same, and it can't do anything beyound it's limit. (Even the operating system doesn't change much, it just get small updates, unless you reinstall everything from scratch)
    Last edited by Tarnished; 12-09-2021 at 01:09 AM.

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