Hello guys,
In this thread, I would like to talk with you about a lovely and charming topic, these world's heroes unconditionally loved by everyone : the SEEs.
It seems to me that often SEEs doesn't like being contradicted. I had conversations with some SEEs in my life and something is common. When we disagree with them, there is an odd sensation that seems to ran through them. Like a creeping frustration. An anger. With time, I had occasions to heard some explanations (always given after the moment in question) that they would have wanted to be "more listened to" or "more understood".
But, there is something weird in this. I mean, I could believe it because everyone want to be listened to and understood but there is a coincidence. When everything goes like they wanted, it was fine, it was perfect. But when things didn't go as they wanted, it was "I would have wanted to be more listened to to and understood." Of course, there is probably truth in that. There was conversations when indeed they weren't listened to or understood. But all conversations? I don't think so. And yet, this complaint seems to rise very frequently.
So... I made some research to see what I could find. Socionics "experts" wrote about this :
Originally Posted by StratiyevskayaOriginally Posted by FilatovaOriginally Posted by GulenkoMy question is, how to deal with this specific behavior. SEEs, what would be a "good" reaction to you when someone disagree with your opinion(s) ? What is for you direspectful and what is a sign that we care about you ?Originally Posted by socionics.com base on 'Gulenko's work with some alterations'
There is many things that I would add but I keep it for later.
To be honest. I just want to read some reactions about this. I would really like read SEEs answers because I love learn things about my dual and how make things right with them. Duality is I think awesome but it's also hard and need to work on ourselves. Of course, everyone experience with this thematic is valuable.