Yeah, this is another difference between me and her. She also mentioned this herself. I don't try to get closer to people who have power, I know how I can if I want such a thing, but this is not a thing that I am allured to. She is more prone to do that.
I can recognize who has power, why does that person has it, I can get it myself, I am getting it in different areas. But I don't assess people mainly about in this aspect. I don't treat them differently. I said hold the door to CEO and subordinate, their rank doesn't matter to me when I want to catch the elevator
I noticed both Si/Ne and Se/Ni people refrain from doing such things though. I don't know if this Se-polr power or not
There are things that bothers me with lack of power in others though such as cowardness, passive agressiveness, not able to take a side when it is needed, when things are important, etc. I will mention these in detail.
In some other thread, I said I dont care about people's status, but I see it, I dont want to get undermined in this way or any other way. It is also a bit cringe to me when people say omg you so rich to some rich person. I think it is also ok to want things, ofcourse if I had more money, I would live in bigger better house. I think these things are more related to how much a money person has. So when a rich person buys some shinny things I think that is natural. I wrote these kind of things on a thread months or a year ago and selftyped LIIs suggested I am seeing hierachies and I want things, hence I cannot be Se-polr, I can be LSI. Which sounded absurd to me, because this is how human nature works. How can a person not see this.
Irl, some Se egos don't want to argue with me. It can be because Se ego don't want to be attacked in a way that they don't expect if I am a Ne ego. I thought these stuff could be due to argumentative side of Ne. However, nobody mentions such things here.
Based on these, if I am LII, how things work in real life clashes with what forum members say here. Polr descriptions also don't reflect reality.
If I had known more variety of types, things would be more easier for me to assess. However, I don't know any alpha NTs irl.