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    Quote Originally Posted by FreelancePoliceman View Post
    I will never use a dating app.
    lol why?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luna Lovegood View Post
    lol why?
    I'm not interested in advertising myself like a car. I don't want to think of my partner that way, and I wouldn't want her to think of me that way. When you start deciding who is or isn't acceptable to you based on such impersonal characteristics you begin to devalue what really matters. And when you devalue these things in others you begin to devalue them in yourself. Using dating apps reduces you as a person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FreelancePoliceman View Post
    I'm not interested in advertising myself like a car. I don't want to think of my partner that way, and I wouldn't want her to think of me that way. When you start deciding who is or isn't acceptable to you based on such impersonal characteristics you begin to devalue what really matters. And when you devalue these things in others you begin to devalue them in yourself. Using dating apps reduces you as a person.
    ur not allowed to type ur personal characteristics? there's no a kind of person based on characteristics that u are and that u would get along with so u define them with those characteristics?
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    Quote Originally Posted by FreelancePoliceman View Post
    I'm not interested in advertising myself like a car. I don't want to think of my partner that way, and I wouldn't want her to think of me that way. When you start deciding who is or isn't acceptable to you based on such impersonal characteristics you begin to devalue what really matters. And when you devalue these things in others you begin to devalue them in yourself. Using dating apps reduces you as a person.
    I also have a problem using dating websites/apps.

    It is a quite irrational behaviour (not in the socionics sense) because I think I'd do well there; and also, those apps are where women are expecting to meet people, more and more, at the expense of the attention they might give to people outside those apps.

    But I just can't force myself to do it. I've always hated selling myself to get attention. I've even gone so far as pretending I was bad at something (sports, for instance) just to be left alone, many many times.
    I also have trouble letting people decide whether I'm worth a shot or not.

    I have to admit I don't care very much about romantic relationships. The randomness of it always has put me off.

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