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    carrying something over from mbti, this is pretty stupid but it can get interesting. make guesses/assumptions about eachothers family based on type, heres mine

    me - ILI-Ni
    mom - EII-Ne
    dad - ILE-Ne

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    Quote Originally Posted by ori View Post
    carrying something over from mbti, this is pretty stupid but it can get interesting. make guesses/assumptions about eachothers family based on type, heres mine

    me - ILI-Ni
    mom - EII-Ne
    dad - ILE-Ne
    God have mercy on your dad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ori View Post
    carrying something over from mbti, this is pretty stupid but it can get interesting. make guesses/assumptions about eachothers family based on type, heres mine

    me - ILI-Ni
    mom - EII-Ne
    dad - ILE-Ne
    Are you sure they are not mirrors? Eii-iee or ile-lii
    A true sense-perception certainly exists, but it always looks as though objects were not so much forcing their way into the subject in their own right as that the subject were seeing things quite differently, or saw quite other things than the rest of mankind. As a matter of fact, the subject perceives the same things as everybody else, only, he never stops at the purely objective effect, but concerns himself with the subjective perception released by the objective stimulus.
    (Jung on Si)

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    Me-SEI-Fe
    Mom-SLI
    Dad-ESI
    Sister-SEE
    Brother-SLE



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    Me-ILE
    Mom-SEE
    Dad-LII

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDucki View Post
    Me-SEI-Fe
    Mom-SLI
    Dad-ESI
    Sister-SEE
    Brother-SLE
    Very down to earth family lol

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    Me - SLI-Si
    Mom- ESI-Se?
    Dad - SEE-Fi
    Sister - IEI-Ni
    Maternal half brother - LSE-Te
    Paternal half brother - Not sure, some Se valuing feeling type
    Paternal half sister - SEE-Se

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    Quote Originally Posted by BILLYLO View Post
    Sister - IEI-Ni
    Maternal half brother - LSE-Te


    Me - SLI-Si
    Mom- ESI-Se?
    Dad - SEE-Fi
    Paternal half brother - Not sure, some Se valuing feeling type
    Paternal half sister - SEE-Se
    The rest... very sensory, down to earth family? A bit chill and intense at times?

    Me - SLE-Se
    Dad - LIE-Te
    Mom- ESE-Fe
    Brother - Some sort of sensor, prolly Si base or xSI

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    Quote Originally Posted by Baqer View Post
    Me-ILE
    Mom-SEE
    Dad-LII
    2 Against 1 and so many Polr hits on your Mom! But thats okay cause she is the leader of the house with all of that Se



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    Me- SEE
    Grandma- LSE
    Grandpa- SEI
    Uncle- EII
    Other Uncle- SLI
    Mom- SxI
    Dad- ILI
    Brother- ESI

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    Me- IEI
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    Dad- ILI
    Sister- SEE
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    Mom - EII-Ne
    Dad - LSI-Se
    (bad marriage, now divorced )
    (Mom's new bf - LIE-Ni)
    (Dad's new gf - SEI)

    Me IEE-Ne

    Sister ILE-Ne
    (Sister's bf IEI-Ni)

    Paternal gandma - LSI
    Gramps - ??? never met him

    Maternal gandma - ESE
    Maternal grandpa - LII
    (I really liked them, but now they're ded)


    remark: the number of people with superego or conflict parents is troubling... hypothesis: people with complicated families try to understand socionics to make sense of the mess more often than happy people leading to an over-representation on the forum...

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    Quote Originally Posted by lkdhf qkb View Post
    Mom - EII-Ne
    Dad - LSI-Se
    (bad marriage, now divorced )
    (Mom's new bf - LIE-Ni)
    (Dad's new gf - SEI)

    Me IEE-Ne

    Sister ILE-Ne
    (Sister's bf IEI-Ni)

    Paternal gandma - LSI
    Gramps - ??? never met him

    Maternal gandma - ESE
    Maternal grandpa - LII
    (I really liked them, but now they're ded)


    remark: the number of people with superego or conflict parents is troubling... hypothesis: people with complicated families try to understand socionics to make sense of the mess more often than happy people leading to an over-representation on the forum...
    How was your relationship with your dad????

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    Quote Originally Posted by ori View Post
    carrying something over from mbti, this is pretty stupid but it can get interesting. make guesses/assumptions about eachothers family based on type, heres mine

    me - ILI-Ni
    mom - EII-Ne
    dad - ILE-Ne
    Which one of your parents seemed more attached to the other, if at all?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinKDiGiT18 View Post
    How was your relationship with your dad????
    Well, it sucks, he never really gets over the fact I won't shower him with Fe 24/24 or appreciate his Ti, and we're not that close now that I'm an adult. I have some LSI friends, but this parental relationship, because it is close, and because my father always wanted to have authority over me, was a sometimes a burden to carry. Also, I guess he was a bit disappointed as an ST to have a 'sissy' NF son. He was a good father, he was never mean or downright unfair to me, and he was taking his responsabilities very seriously in the household, but what he gave/expected from me wasn't really what I needed to thrive.

    I think I posted something similar already, but Kafka, which I type IEE-Fi, wrote something similar about his father(from the descriptions, I'd guess a beta ST):
    Father, understand me correctly: these are completely insignificant details, yet they oppressed me, because you, a great man of authority, could lay down rules for me, and ignore them. And through this I saw that the world was divided into three parts: in the first lived the slave, me, under laws invented solely for my life but to which, without understanding why, I could never fully adjust; and in the second part lived you, infinitely far from me, busy ruling, giving commands and being angry when they weren’t followed; and in the third lived everybody else, happy and free from commands and obedience. And I was constantly in disgrace, either because I followed your commands, and that was a disgrace, as they were valid only for me; or I was stubborn, and that was also a disgrace, because I was being stubborn to oppose you; or I wasn’t able to obey, because I, for example, had not your strength, your appetite, your skill, to do whatever it was that for you seemed natural. Franz Kafka, Letter to My Father
    But that relationship was overshadowed by the suckiness of the relationship between my mom and dad and sister. There is a balance and stability to conflict relationships, that even if uncomfortable, never allows the kind of conflicts i've witnessed between my other family members:

    Mom-dad: super ego
    Sister/dad and Mom/sister: supervision
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    Me - SLE
    mom - IEE-Ne
    dad - LII-Ti
    sister - ESE-Si
    sister - EII-Fi
    brother - ILI-Te

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    Dad - SLE
    Mom - SEI
    Sister - ESI
    Brother - ILE
    With mind distracted, never thinking, "Death is coming,"
    To slave away on the pointless business of mundane life,
    And then to come out empty--it is a tragic error.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eudaimonia View Post
    Dad - SLE
    Mom - SEI
    Sister - ESI
    Brother - ILE
    Your poor sister

    Also oedipus complex



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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDucki View Post
    Your poor sister

    Also oedipus complex

    lol eww
    With mind distracted, never thinking, "Death is coming,"
    To slave away on the pointless business of mundane life,
    And then to come out empty--it is a tragic error.
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    Me - ILE-Ti

    Close family ordered by level of closeness
    Mom - EII-Ne
    Dad - ILI-Te
    Cousin (best friend) - SLI-Si
    Grandma 1 - IEE-Ne
    Cousin 2 - LIE or IEE?
    Aunt - EII-Fi
    Uncle - LSE-Te
    Grandma 2 - LSE-Te
    Grandpa - EII-Ne (RIP)

    May I please have a crumb of Fe?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tallmo View Post
    Are you sure they are not mirrors? Eii-iee or ile-lii
    I'm pretty sure of their types especially because their Fi/Ti conflicts

    Quote Originally Posted by Baqer View Post
    God have mercy on your dad.
    Quote Originally Posted by Baqer View Post
    Me-ILE
    Mom-SEE
    Dad-LII
    God have mercy on your mom

    Quote Originally Posted by PinKDiGiT18 View Post
    Which one of your parents seemed more attached to the other, if at all?
    Neither really depend on eachother. My mom takes care of herself, has her own job, does some of the house work, my dad does the same. My dad is still kind of the man of the house I guess, being the only extrovert and the most intellectually confident of us three. My parent's don't have a typical supervisor relationship even though I'm pretty sure of their types.

    Quote Originally Posted by reverie View Post
    Me- IEI
    Mom- ESE
    Dad- ILI
    Sister- SEE
    What's it like having conflictor parents? Do they conflict as much as socionics likes us to believe?
    Last edited by ori; 09-05-2021 at 04:05 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Banana King View Post
    Me - ILE-Ti

    Close family ordered by level of closeness
    Mom - EII-Ne
    Dad - ILI-Te
    Cousin (best friend) - SLI-Si
    Grandma 1 - IEE-Ne
    Cousin 2 - LIE or IEE?
    Aunt - EII-Fi
    Uncle - LSE-Te
    Grandma 2 - LSE-Te
    Grandpa - EII-Ne (RIP)

    May I please have a crumb of Fe?
    I feel yo bro. I feel you. Have some Fe

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    Quote Originally Posted by ori View Post
    What's it like having conflictor parents? Do they conflict as much as socionics likes us to believe?
    Yes

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDucki View Post
    2 Against 1 and so many Polr hits on your Mom! But thats okay cause she is the leader of the house with all of that Se
    "leader" is a generous term.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DEAD View Post



    The rest... very sensory, down to earth family? A bit chill and intense at times?

    Me - SLE-Se
    Dad - LIE-Te
    Mom- ESE-Fe
    Brother - Some sort of sensor, prolly Si base or xSI
    Yeah they hate each other and haven't spoken since 2013.

    My family is all around pretty insane and ridiculously impulsive. Definitely would have benefited with more Te or Ti in the family.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Baqer View Post
    "leader" is a generous term.
    Lol what would you say if not „leader“?



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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDucki View Post
    Lol what would you say if not „leader“?
    Well there's alot of Se "girlboss"-ness in her, the problem is that it really doesn't go well with my dad or me, so it just ends up being her falling flat most of the time.

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    Me - IEI-Ni
    Sister - IEI-Fe or ESI-Fi. I still don't know which
    Mom - ESE-Fe
    Dad - LII-Ti
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