What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about iI work
I work on computers mainly repairing/troubleshooting them, my side job is retail part time as a backup for when things get slow or bad.
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them?
Outdoor activities, hiking, going on long walks around town, stay on the internet, watch movies, play video games or card games, messing around with older computer tech hardware. I do them to stay focused and keep my mind away from dull boring life.
What are your values, and why?
This is a loaded question and to keep it simple,
Describe your relationships with family and friends. What do you like and dislike about them?
I always had few friends, growing up ususally kept small with 2 close friends I hang out with. It's important to me to have someone close because I need the support and to talk to someone when I'm by myself. I'm all alone in my living so having someone to talk to about anything is a big deal I would say. What I don't like is the neediness that I feel to stay with them going to new places or when we have a big fight over something that messes everything up and they can't move on from it as I can move past the conflict. I listen and stay calm, grounded even, when crap hits the fan.
What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?
I want someone who is chill and doesn't complain or talk about themselves like above others no drama or bulls(&t in friendships we must have something in common, someone who knows how to have fun.
Romantically, I look for the similar values and has a edge to them, take charge, thinking, intuitive woman who can lead the conversation and gets me out of my shell. I'm always attracted to the girl that follows her own code.
What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?
Not being able to come to come to a compromise on things, doesn't see things as two way street it's always one way and theirs, always complaining about little stuff that doesn't matter much, I make effort to see them and we make plans only for them to call it off without telling me, ghosting, not hearing what I have to say. Biggest one is not understanding me or even taking time to reflect on how I feel or think about their problems trying to help them out.
What are your strengths? What do people like about you? What do you like about yourself?
I'm not sure what people like about me, as I can never really ask it with them taking me serious. So with that being said. I tend to find myself chill, open minded on most anything, laid back, no drama, I tend to talk about technical stuff or random stuff I know. I have an eye for art and looking good, somewhat different than others. I don't follow the herd. Not into trends much. I follow my heart as much as possible.
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself?
Not being seen for who I am, being mistaken for some enigma or someone who is bossy and rude just because of my eyes (yes they are my worst feature) I get told I need to speak loud but I can't stand that its not me. Also I don't like my height as it's small compared to other guys I see walking 6 feet tall and more. I'm 5'11 it's average at best.
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?
I can stay true to myself, knowing what I want is important yes, I can be in the moment very well. I need help seeing the big picture in things where the roads lead to the bigger picture and being able to go there with someone that can help me in life with organizing and leading others. Someone who can pump me up so to speak.
What things do you dislike doing? What things do you enjoy more than others?
I don't like imposing myself on others, ordering them around, being snobby or nasty to strangers just for the sake of being bad or morally black, not me. I like going down rabbit holes and looking at something deeper finding the truth behind something I like.
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future, and why?
I hope to be in a relationship with a mate that gets me and sees beyond my flaws as I do them. Having someone to hold and love me making me feel like I matter. Other than that I am really bad at these kinds of questions since I never was good at planning.
If you won the lottery and didn't have to work anymore, what would you do?
Invest it into something that can help make money over time like a gas station always have money coming in. Move out and find a better place to live. Gain skills that I wasn't taught as a child that can make a huge difference in my self.
What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you?
Being too nice and therefore fake people, I can't stand that in others or working with them. Being humble around here means to be a doormat but I hear it's good to have and I try to see it more positively. Others don't seem to take it over well when someone is being true to who they are, individualism. I never understood. I guess that makes me one of those types of rebel
What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)?
I love to have anything unusual or different hanging up in my room, I like kimonos and have few of them, I hang them on my wall when they are too big or I also have posters up of a video game or movie I really like having meaning to me.
How do you behave around strangers?
I stay silent and listen to what is being said, try to give them a non judgemental space to talk, I'm not good at small talk much and need to move on from the convo when I feel like it's not going anywhere (like sure, yeah, okay, but isn't that like X?) I can look like I'm not interested but honestly, just trying to listen and hear them out. What I say isn't important
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you?
Phew, I scatter around, my mind is going fast, my heart is racing as if I did something wrong my fault and I didn't know right away, looking for someone who can help me out as I am bad at the organizing and micromanaging things. If someone gets pissed at me or threatens me I will not hesitate to tell them off, this is where I can lay myself out pretty well but also harshly in doing so. I will not let anything harm me even if they were drunk or "having a bad day and needed to blow steam off" it's no excuse. Another conflict I come across is when no one communicates with me and my follow through is taken advantage of. I will cut myself off from them completely.
Would you ever be interested in starting a business? Why or why not? What role would you play in it? What kind of business would it be?
I could never see myself starting a business. It's not something that I think of.
How do you dress or manage your appearance?
Right now, I wear t shirts in solid color eg green, orange, red, black. I like to wear loose stuff nothing tight or ruff on my skin capri shorts with a design, I keep my face with my beard small and shaped. I like to keep my head shaved or some fuzz since it's all the hair I can grow left lol. I wear a charm around my neck too. I do worry about my appearance in some way so I try to cover up in case it's overtly showing too much skin.
Do you like kids? Why or why not?
Kids are weird these days, I suppose its all a phase that is more apparent than back when I was a kid in the 90s where I needed to come up with stuff, yeah a lot of ideas back then. To answer the question honestly I don't care either way.
In what situations or times in your life did you feel most fulfilled, and why?
When I am seen and heard, I like being counted on as I can take action when someone is in need and no one else can help them, I can be counted on to take hold and charge of the problem and help them out, that is when I feel the most important to others and better of myself.
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I would like my enneagram and tri type in addition to my socionics type.