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    Quote Originally Posted by Megatrop View Post
    For IEE, I'd say be very touchy and flirtatious when they are not into you, and if they give any signal of interest, BACK OFF and pull away. That will make them want to chase even if they don't have real feelings. If they seem to lose hope, give some hints that you are interested and then pull away again.

    That's bullshit but that's how you can attract an IEE
    Is this for real what y'all IEEs like? No judgement, but like... AHHGGHHGHGAHG never do this to me!
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    Quote Originally Posted by AWellArmedCat View Post
    Is this for real what y'all IEEs like? No judgement, but like... AHHGGHHGHGAHG never do this to me!
    It's not that we like it, though
    But we do react to that behavior
    You can only see the effect when you go through it, it's not something you can notice other people doing. It's like an internal joke type of flirtation
    Sometimes you don't have motivation because you lack purpose.
    Sometimes you don't have purpose, because you lack self-knowledge
    Sometimes you don't have self-knowledge because you lack love
    Sometimes you don't have love because you lack self-love
    Sometimes you don't have self-love because you lack guess what? Ask Gulenko!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Megatrop View Post
    But we do react to that behavior
    Lol I gotcha
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    Some of this has todo with attachment styles and your own mental wellbeing. I mean BPD is not going to view relationships and forming attachments the same way as a secure type like myself who is happy being alone
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    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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