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    A 7 sx/so who hates her job and hate where she lives is allowed to stop caring about job security and should just quit and move across the country and figure it out, right? Pretty please??
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kim View Post
    A 7 sx/so who hates her job and hate where she lives is allowed to stop caring about job security and should just quit and move across the country and figure it out, right? Pretty please??
    My SLI-Te father and SLI-Te ex-wife and SLI-Te son love to plan trips, map them out in great detail, accumulate the things they will need to go on these trips safely and comfortably, and then will go on the trip.

    Each of them has also devoted a huge amount of time and effort to saving enough money so they can stop working at any time and just go off and do other things.

    @Kim, I remember seeing your picture. IIRC, you VI as an IEE-Fi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    My SLI-Te father and SLI-Te ex-wife and SLI-Te son love to plan trips, map them out in great detail, accumulate the things they will need to go on these trips safely and comfortably, and then will go on the trip.

    Each of them has also devoted a huge amount of time and effort to saving enough money so they can stop working at any time and just go off and do other things.

    Kim, I remember seeing your picture. IIRC, you VI as an IEE-Fi.
    Haha, that's the nice thing about SLIs. They have money stored. But as ILI I have to tell my mom to stop being manipulated by ahem other Ethical family members. It's like their mission in life to be the provider though, even my mom mentioned it. Security and stability needed by IEEs is so natural for her to provide.

    Regarding the trips, just this weekend ESI and I talked about going to the countryside and buffet on a whim but SLI had to butt in and plan it out first. But then she wants (or has, rather) to go with us. So it never really happened. lol things never get rushed and I'm assuming if the talk is ridden with emotions "I hate my job! I want to leave! etc etc" SLIs will always come up with an opinion to bring you back to the Earth.

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    Usually when career stuff is involved, SLI mother would always talk about how your value has a peak (which is based on your age) so you have to take that into account. If you want to go live somewhere else, sure but would you be able to save up for a house there and if you are sure to have a job that will pay the bills AND give you enough savings AND provide some comforts for yourself, the job should be secured enough that you can stay there for at least 1-3 years. Also what job do you want exactly and would you have jobs for that in where you plan to go
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