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    Default just a question

    what types would have a positive response to an ad on reddit like this and follow thru? please include socionics and/or enneagram



    Anyone wanna go on a walk with me an my puppy around the lake? Or go for a drive and possibly get some drinks?

    Let me know! Boring Friday for me.

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    Cant speak for other types but ads like that can make feel...puzzled I guess
    That wouldnít people want someone they are familiar with to hang out in that way? Someone close (distance not relation) to them? Does this really warrant an ad...? That sort of thing

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    i definitely understand the impulse, because of the stimulation and potential, but... oof. just couldnt

    could any dual pairs find each other this way?

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    Lake sounds nice, that seems like a friendly offer to me?
    If Iím sleep-deprived or not that melancholic Iíll say the first thing that came to my mind - Lake, nice. Drive, nice. Drinking, !!! probably would have a lot of people around nope What breed is the dog?
    But tbh I actually wonít have a definite decision if I would join the person or not lol depends if the convo goes well

    Iím probably thinking like this bec Iím also bored to death and I dying to go out atm but I havenít thought of anything to do outside yet
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    Sounds like a good way to get murdered lol personally that creeps me the hell out does he also drive white van , no back windows, by chance? Just curious
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    FWIW, that’s what I did with the ESI I’ve been talking to for the past year. We drove to a park by a lake, walked about three miles around the lake through woods, then ended up at a nice restaurant where we had a late dinner and drinks. She seemed pretty happy at the time.

    I’ve done similar things with other women on first dates. Sometimes we’ll get takeout and go to a park and eat under a pavilion. Ann Arbor has tons of parks.

    So far, the women seem to really like this experience, but I could see the potential for mayhem, I guess. Fortunately, I don’t drive a pedo-van.

    (I’ve recently been thinking about getting a van, though. I have a telescope that’s pretty big and I could haul it to dark sky sites inside a van. I guess any van I get will have to have lots of windows, though.
    I recently rented a Pacifica and the seats fold flat into the floor, which is nice, but the driver’s seat isn’t that great and there were some other things I didn’t like about it. Will have to give this more thought.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    FWIW, that’s what I did with the ESI I’ve been talking to for the past year. We drove to a park by a lake, walked about three miles around the lake through woods, then ended up at a nice restaurant where we had a late dinner and drinks. She seemed pretty happy at the time.

    I’ve done similar things with other women on first dates. Sometimes we’ll get takeout and go to a park and eat under a pavilion. Ann Arbor has tons of parks.

    So far, the women seem to really like this experience, but I could see the potential for mayhem, I guess. Fortunately, I don’t drive a pedo-van.

    (I’ve recently been thinking about getting a van, though. I have a telescope that’s pretty big and I could haul it to dark sky sites inside a van. I guess any van I get will have to have lots of windows, though.
    I recently rented a Pacifica and the seats fold flat into the floor, which is nice, but the driver’s seat isn’t that great and there were some other things I didn’t like about it. Will have to give this more thought.)
    lol. I might have a certain paranoia about it. I get weird about parking next to vans like that, or even people in their cars. I will try to see if anyone is in the van and be extra cautious getting out and run off if I have to park next to one. I would probably skip a good parking spot over a bad one just to avoid parking next to a pedo van
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