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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    @MissDucki, to add a full YouTube video instead of simply linking it, first copy the URL of the video, then open a new post and click your mouse at the point in the post where you want the video to appear (Before or after or in the middle of text) and then click on the green "film strip" icon on the bar at the top of the box. The icon should be second from the right. When the popup window opens, paste your URL into the space and click OK.

    Incidentally, the two people in the video that you linked seemed introverted to me and the seduction scene did nothing for me, although his approach might be distantly similar to my own. I often just tell a woman that I want to have sex with her, once we've reached a certain point.

    To give more detail, I'll watch her eyes, and if she seems to be open to the idea, I'll approach her with a hug and then a kiss, and if the kiss goes well, then hands under her clothes and then I'll tell her that I want to do more with her.

    On first viewing the video, I thought that they were both ILI, but upon second viewing, I could see her as SEI and him as ILE.
    He seems to be logically begging her for attention by laying out his case rationally (but enthusiastically) and she is the one who takes control of the situation by approaching him and pushing him onto the bed.

    TBH, that NEVER happened to me with my Caregiver SLI ex-wife, but I'm not an Infantile, and I could definitely imagine that scene in the video playing out between a Caregiver SEI and an Infantile ILE.

    Thank you! I will give it a try! I will click the little film strip icon and add the url to it:
    https://youtu.be/LFmbNP-nB84
    https://youtu.be/LFmbNP-nB84

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    Edit: I got it..MUHAHAHAHAH THANKS!

    There are more clips of them on youtube that I have seen. I just don't know if I show post more for an analysis. I just posted this specific video as it spoke to me and focuses on a more direct viewing of erotic attitudes.

    I like your take. I kinda figured it may appear more of the aggressive/victim erotic style but I may be wrong. It seems that the victim/aggressor style tends to focus more on non-verbal reactions then verbal reactions. While it may seem that the caregiver is more verbal reactions then non-verbal reactions.
    I relate to what I have bold-ed heavily. I respond really well to that. Enthusiastic rational case pleading with me taking the lead is *perfect*

    I do think Delta seems to have a bit of a different caregiver/victim style. My mom is an SLI and i've had infantile delta friends and they seem to respond a bit differently then I do. Same how the Gamma victim/aggressor style is a little different from Beta.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDucki View Post
    https://youtu.be/LFmbNP-nB84

    Okay, I just remember this clip and I want to include it in this thread. It can be debated whether it is more caregiver/infantile or aggressor/victim. I am curious what you may think. Just maybe we can interpret some scenes with erotic attitudes possibly. Either way, I love it. The characters had some time to get to know each other beforehand and Harry is Charlotte's divorce layer. If a man ever did what Harry did in the clip, I would exactly react like Charlotte

    Edit: If someone can explain to me how you guys are able to add like the full YouTube video without providing a link, that would be fully appreciated!

    That scene made me thought of SEI-IEE dynamic.


    PS: If you insert https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFmbNP-nB84 instead of https://youtu.be/LFmbNP-nB84, it should work.

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    I am going to add some more clips cause I CAN NOW





    I find these videos interesting too in regards to their characters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDucki View Post


    Okay, I just remember this clip and I want to include it in this thread. It can be debated whether it is more caregiver/infantile or aggressor/victim. I am curious what you may think. Just maybe we can interpret some scenes with erotic attitudes possibly. Either way, I love it. The characters had some time to get to know each other beforehand and Harry is Charlotte's divorce layer. If a man ever did what Harry did in the clip, I would exactly react like Charlotte

    Edit: If someone can explain to me how you guys are able to add like the full YouTube video without providing a link, that would be fully appreciated!

    Edit 2: Thank you @Adam Strange and @myresearch! you guys rocks!
    I don't personally relate to it, but perhaps it makes more sense for Alphas.

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    This article breaks down the erotic attitudes as they differ between quadra...

    https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...otic-Attitudes

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stray Cat View Post
    This article breaks down the erotic attitudes as they differ between quadra...

    https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...otic-Attitudes
    I don’t entirely understand what they mean by outside sexuality

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    Quote Originally Posted by necrosebud View Post
    I don’t entirely understand what they mean by outside sexuality
    Outside sexuality probably refers to the intellectual realm that's mental rather anything concrete or physical

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stray Cat View Post
    Outside sexuality probably refers to the intellectual realm that's mental rather anything concrete or physical
    But would this not be any intuitive type though
    they assign this quality to delta STs (even though I’ve read lit that says LSEs are conscious of their sexual attraction, but not as much their feelings)

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    Quote Originally Posted by myresearch View Post
    That scene made me thought of SEI-IEE dynamic.


    PS: If you insert https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFmbNP-nB84 instead of https://youtu.be/LFmbNP-nB84, it should work.
    Judging by the amount of body is used by him I do not think he is infantile...

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    Quote Originally Posted by necrosebud View Post
    But would this not be any intuitive type though
    they assign this quality to delta STs (even though I’ve read lit that says LSEs are conscious of their sexual attraction, but not as much their feelings)
    Si is an internal state. It doesn't favor aggressive sexuality but tender touching & the sentimentality they likely provide for them

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    Quote Originally Posted by pandemic candy View Post
    Then add a bit of Ne-playfulness then u get infantile vibes, eh?
    I dunno. I don't have Si-ego

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    @MissDucki ... just watched your Sex in the City video thing.

    Weird. I didn't expect her to pounce on him like that! I thought it was going to be a SEI/LIE conflictor situation where she rebuffs his advances and scolds him and angrily walks out. I was actually surprised and my Ni didn't see it coming whoa! That might be kinda what dual-seeking Ne is like sometimes?

    See, Ni doesn't know *everything.*

    And being so gay and homoerotic I'm obviously a bad judge of character of what women really want sexually.

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    Honestly, I am a straight up sucker if a guy is direct with his words in regards to his advances. Especially when I am feeling 'vulnerable' as Charlotte wasn't expecting Harry to still find her attractive in her glasses as she feels self conscious wearing them and doesn't view her in her glasses as 'sexy'. You can see his logical reasoning but that emotional depth behind his words that just mph! <3
    If there was a guy who knew me for sometime and was like "MissDucki, I think you are intelligent, cute and incredibly sexy. I have been dying to get my hands on you for the longest time. I want to lock you down and take you to bed. What does it take?" ....... I am basically puddy. Especially if I wasn't expecting it and I was feeling vulnerable in myself at the moment and he still says that. You got me. I am now officially smitten lol. I don't think a lot of ILE really tell you how they feel but, when they do with logical reason and you can feel the emotion behind the words, I find it very attractive. Edit: I find infantile's have this "I don't care, I want it anyway and I am going to take it" aspect to them that I also find attractive. Its endearing.

    Lol, no Ni, doesn't see everything but I still trust it least Ive had enough Ni friends that seem to prove me wrong and 'predict' so to speak. I don't understand the Ni wave length but I know my friends are masters so I trust them in regards to understanding and utilizing it with ease and precision more then me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BandD View Post
    @MissDucki ... just watched your Sex in the City video thing.

    Weird. I didn't expect her to pounce on him like that! I thought it was going to be a SEI/LIE conflictor situation where she rebuffs his advances and scolds him and angrily walks out. I was actually surprised and my Ni didn't see it coming whoa! That might be kinda what dual-seeking Ne is like sometimes?

    See, Ni doesn't know *everything.*

    And being so gay and homoerotic I'm obviously a bad judge of character of what women really want sexually.

    I'm not SEI, but my impression of SEIs is that they are sexier and more forward (in a "nice" way) than any other type. But they only turn this on in the presence of the usually inert and clueless ILEs. Otherwise, their energy just goes into being "Fe-nice" to strangers.

    It's kind of interesting for me to compare them to ESIs. SEIs seem "light-sexy" and more playful, while ESIs seem "heavier" and more direct, like ESIs say, "Well, do you want to do this right now?" in a kind of demanding way, while SEIs seem to be more like, "Let me smother you with this ornamentation while feeding you cupcakes." It's the difference between an Aggressor and a Caregiver approach.

    That's my impression, but then, I'm sitting way over here on the other side of the table and I can't see things that well, when they are that far away.

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    Honestly, I am a straight up sucker if a guy is direct with his words in regards to his advances. Especially when I am feeling 'vulnerable' as Charlotte wasn't expecting Harry to still find her attractive in her glasses as she feels self conscious wearing them and doesn't view her in her glasses as 'sexy'. You can see his logical reasoning but that emotional depth behind his words that just mph! <3
    Yes I think that is sexy too when you are insecure about something the other person actually finds hot or doesn't care. It makes u feel safe and really even in aggressor/victim sex there needs to be a level of safety and trust for it to happen.

    And the scene also made me think of the saying 'Alpha f*cks or Beta bucks' and he had the Beta bucks lol.

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    while SEIs seem to be more like, "Let me smother you with this ornamentation while feeding you cupcakes." It's the difference between an Aggressor and a Caregiver approach.
    Haha that made me laugh but isn't that type of thing more ESE than SEI? re: ornamentation smothering and cupcake feeding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissDucki View Post


    Okay, I just remember this clip and I want to include it in this thread. It can be debated whether it is more caregiver/infantile or aggressor/victim. I am curious what you may think. Just maybe we can interpret some scenes with erotic attitudes possibly. Either way, I love it. The characters had some time to get to know each other beforehand and Harry is Charlotte's divorce layer. If a man ever did what Harry did in the clip, I would exactly react like Charlotte

    Edit: If someone can explain to me how you guys are able to add like the full YouTube video without providing a link, that would be fully appreciated!

    Edit 2: Thank you @Adam Strange and @myresearch! you guys rocks!
    Loool I hate to admit it but some of her reactions were definitely similar to how i would've reacted. The laughing and telling him to stop (even though she likes it), and her being "hot" and needing to open the window lol
    I do like when guys are super direct in that way

    Except I wouldn't have pounced on him like she did lol
    Chronic "grass is always greener" syndrome




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    Quote Originally Posted by fatgurl View Post
    Loool I hate to admit it but some of her reactions were definitely similar to how i would've reacted. The laughing and telling him to stop (even though she likes it), and her being "hot" and needing to open the window lol
    I do like when guys are super direct in that way

    Except I wouldn't have pounced on him like she did lol
    Lol I would have been turned off by his blatant attempts to show off.

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