when you have "to love" as hidden agenda and Te as creative function but you can't find an IEE like Ethan Klein around that shows you new perspectives so you fall in love with the next best option:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gim3d1qlZog
ILI are more imaginery because of Ni. they build an attraction to anime characters and call them waifu.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mp0NaAa3eeY
nikola tesla didn't have this option back then, so he chose a pigeon. cats are also very interesting for ILI-