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MissDucki
Good question. Hmm well I think the play out like they do for straight people really. It's not much different in the private bed of things even though we gays like our costume parties and paying more attention to aesthetics.
I get along with aggressive erotic men, just feel it in my entire body. I haven't met one yet that I can share my life with or call a 'boyfriend' but that's okay I'm not rushing it.
The thing with gay men though is we have both a dick and an ass so being 'versatile' is a common reality of a lot of gay men. I myself am versatile. I think it's natural because I have both a dick and a butt- and if I see a hot dick I want it to fuck me, and if I see a cute man butt I want to fuck it!
With straight people the erotic energy is more 'pure' or something because straight women do not have penises. So it tends to be more of a one-way exchange I think or at least appear that way. I think this 'purity' sometimes gets confused by bigots with 'moral purity' and I think that's how a lot of discrimination sadly tends to happen against gays. Because when we do shitty things in life, we don't think we're not righteous- we think we have the right! Some straight people think they are morally better than us and deserve to treat us 'lesser than' because of it. As this sort of purity thing gets confused too much with moral purity at times maybe. A lot of drag queen shows mocks this heteronormative superiority complex.
But maybe I'm a different kind of gay in that I'm not really into sleeping around- or that's just a negative stereotype. I want something more monogamous- or if it is an 'open relationship' not too open and I would need to know more about them. Getting some weird STD from being too slutty isn't really what I want in life, or having to take an AIDS pill with weird side effects just not to get diseases. The desire and impulse for sex is one thing (My libido is naturally high) but actually doing it always has consequences people should pay attention to- gay or straight. I don't like society encouraging gay men to disrespect each other and treat each other like rancid pieces of meat or in ways that are actually immoral. I don't want to 'take POZ loads down my mouth.'
Even though studies have proven pedophilia is more common in heterosexuals- I still want to stamp out all pedophilia in our community as well. I think you can enjoy hot sex without being this whore that gets AIDS - and that is my ideal.
I hope I was helpful! I'm so glad we're friends too.