This is from my perspective as so/sx 2w3. I don't put a lot of focus on risky experiences on their own but I really enjoy them as bonding activities. I can do SP stuff if other people are involved - for example, if my friend is interested in skincare, I will listen to her and try to get into it as well so we can bond over that. I tend to disregard my own comfort if it means I can do more of an activity that allows me to bond with people, like stay up all night playing games or overextend seeing a lot of people all at once. It's not those experiences themselves that I seek out usually, but the bond that they forge with the people you do them with, and that is why I feel they are important.