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    Default Preferred ennegram-socionics combinations for long term (marriage?) relationships

    Please list which ennegram type you prefer for each of the socionics types when it comes to a relationship. Ideally, this should be the e-type you prefer for a long-term relationship- one you could imagine settling down with. Hope this makes sense.

    I am IEI E9 and I can imagine myself with the following..

    SLE: e8 (I used to think 7..)
    SEE: e6
    SLI: e5 (possibly e6, don't know many SLIs so it's hard to say)
    ILE: e7
    SEI: e5 (or maybe e6)
    LSI: e5 or e6
    EIE: e6
    ILI: e5
    IEI: not sure about this one..


    I couldn't imagine marrying/settling down with the other socionics types so I'm leaving them out.

    I am wondering if e-type can play a part in the long term stability of a relationship.

    Any other thoughts/comments related to the topic are most welcome!
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    Anything but 3,6,8, or 9, for any type.

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    I have given up on socionics, and I could probably get along with any enneagram type given the heterogeneity within type. I am still wary of 8 though. 7 too probably. And 5. But yeah, still.

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    I think enneagram type (including main type, instinct and tritype) can play a big part in the success of a relationship. For people looking for duals..it’s something important to consider. Because duals with different e-types will be quite different to each other. Learning about enneagram could help you know what to look out for or expect.

    It also makes me realise that non-duality relationships have the potential to be pretty great in their own way. A non-dual relationship could be really good if they are a good enneagram match for you.
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    I’ve always enjoyed enneagram 7s.

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    Any. Enneagrams is about a person’s core fears, nothing to do with compatibility.

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    Some e-type/sociotype combinations probably do find that they don’t have clear preferences. Personally, I really can’t see myself with a 4 or a 9..or a 2. I doubt a 1 or a 3 either..but I am not young, so this plays a part. I don’t have as long to trial this stuff haha.

    I think knowing someone’s full enneagram type (combined with sociotype) is similar to knowing their DCNH subtype. There might be some cross over.

    Honestly, I don’t understand DCNH- it’s not for me. But I do think I’m a harmoniser. And I believe I can type people’s enneagram types including instinct and tritype. I wouldn’t know how to figure out someone’s DCNH type (and whether they were a creative, supposedly compatible with me) but..I think that in figuring out their full enneagram type, I potentially could decide on a D,C,N or H label.

    edit: I need to think the DCNH stuff over honestly
    Last edited by Bethany; 03-03-2021 at 07:52 AM.
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    Type 3... EIE I guess
    I don't like the spotlight, she can have it.

    3s are weird:

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    Ah I swear it is all to do with tritype. Like I think a dual is gonna be more compatible, the more numbers their tritype shares with yours (or if they are a particular compatible tritype). So for me- 846 or 749 are best. But I get on super well with 826 as well so maybe them too. Maybe 854 too.
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