My super-ego type is ESE, and I've met some ESEs, and they are all enneatype 2. All of them.
I'm e8, and the research shows that e8s and e2s are one of the better matches. https://www.9types.com/writeup/ennea...ationships.php
I know a male ESE who is e2, and yes, the guy is helpful and polite and sometimes funny and is a really decent human being, but I'm not gay, and aside from me admiring his taste in interior design, we don't have anything to talk about.
As for the female ESE e2's, I know a couple, and they are also helpful and polite and sometimes funny and are really decent human beings but they both look like men to me. It's that Exxj jaw thing.