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    And that's not the only reason to not spread the myths. The other reason is ANYONE can be into a confident and unhealthy person (like for instance you have been into confident but unhealthy ppl)


    The person I was into was unhealthy but I wouldn't call him confident by a long shot. He was pretty insecure, and that was part of why I liked him. I'm NOT ATTRACTED TO CONFIDENT PEOPLE like some people are, that thing u spread about confidence being universal appealing just isn't true.

    And another reason not to spread the myth--that these diverse groups of people (women and also gay ppl) are somehow monoliths that INHERENTLY have this one unhealthy behavior--is that there is so much research...so much...oodles of research....research for days...showing people start treating them DIFFERENTLY based on you spreading the myth---AND THEY TREAT THEMSELVES DIFFERENTLY BASED ON THESE NEGATIVE MYTHS.

    I'm kinda curious about this from a logical standpoint but I don't think we are going to get anywhere if people are too emotional about this. Of course there will be much more heterosexual pedophiles as there are more str8s but I don't really see it being linked to straight or gay but kind of a perverse sexuality in and of itself as from what I know, pedophiles don't really have any inherent gender bias. They usually prefer minor kids regardless if it's a boy or girl so "technically" they're bisexual. Proportionally even if it was proven that gays are more likely to be pedophiles - that wouldn't mean gays are inherently bad people. Just the ones that decide to go after kids. That was my point- which u don't seem to be getting. A minority can have something 'wrong' objectively occur more often and a higher rate within their population - but still be worthy of equal treatment under the law... a higher occurrence or rate doesn't mean it 'it will happen for sure if you are that minority group.' Do you have any data from unbiased sources that state heterosexuals are more likely to molest kids?

    And when I talk about having someone's back, this is the kind of thing I'm talking about
    : someone going and dispelling that and step in front of snowballing myths that are rolling around and disparaging someone who's gay, ats opposed to the other path: helping the unhealthy myth get spread.
    Fair enough, but again- even if it was proven that gays are more likely to molest kids that isn't some sound arguement that gay = bad just like it doesn't mean black = bad because something like 80% of the prison population is black males. Cruelty is I think a negative trait that might have originated more in women - but it doesn't mean women = bad. I understand it's an emotionally charged issue as it's so serious and detrimental but logically that makes no sense. I would say pedophiles are technically bisexual- and nobody says pedos make bis look bad. The official data is it's usually "straight" people doing it but I'd say with real pedos it's more about the age than the gender.

    And it's something you have done by taking your own self-admitted attraction to a few confident SLE who also were, regretably, not self-directed enough to make a good life with you instead of getting arrested and then you extrapolating that one pattern you USED TO HAVE and saying ALL WOMEN HAVE THIS PATTERN and not only that they exhibit it but that it's MAGICALLY inherent in women.
    Well the guy I talk a lot that I think is SLE could very well be my activity partner or even my identical (although activity is much more likely) He's really kinda shy and introverted for a SLE anyway- although it is possible for SLEs to be shy, he is pretty introverted so the SLE typing was probably bad and me wanting to idealize things because I liked him so much. I don't just get my SLE bad boy = headed for prison joke material from that one guy but multiple men I know lol. It's a stereotype, but I think in some instances Fi polr & high egoic Se can very well lead to that...

    More than anything it's a JOKE though - you don't seem to know what a joke is or have the same kind of humor I do.

    I don't think I said all women have this pattern... but many if not most do. According to wikipedia, 97% of heterosexual women prefer submissive roles during sex. How do you explain that? Is wikipedia against women now??? lol. I kinda agree with other people's assessment of you, if something is not 100% light and holy you seem to not know how to take it.

    And the pause followed by a firm 'but the myth is there for a reason' is so far beneath you. You're more cognitively incisive than this. You're more interested in truth than this, and I am disappointed and feel let down. I'm not saying you're evil or something. I don't believe people are evil. That doesn't make sense. You are causing harm.
    I don't think it causes harm- truth and facts that don't necessarily line up with the Illuminati PC version of events shouldn't necessarily 'be harmful.' Cuz again- a minority can have something dark or negative occur more often within that population and still be worthy of respect. We should treat minorities well even though they aren't Disney Mary Sues IRL.... I'm not a pedophile, but I also shouldn't have to pretend to be perfect or without flaws before a bigot decides to give me equal treatment under the law or not bash my brain in. That's all I'm saying. You seem to be arguing that people need to be "perfect" before they get respect from society- and I don't agree with that right-wing conservative assessment. Gay guys have been trying to play the 'good little maid' thing for ages so people would like us better- and it doesn't seem to work. If somebody wants to hate you- they're gonna hate you no matter how 'good' you pretend to be, so I think it's not right that gays do this so much.

    But I guess we have to keep virtue signaling and playing this I'm morally better game with people in order to win kudos points for society and I don't like playing that game because it's very, very fake. Imo, we as a society should recognize Shadow traits in groups of people without it provoking us so much or going crazy about it. If you don't agree the shadow traits are there- well there are still some where it should be recognized without it being a big deal. If I can only get respect as a gay man of this fake 100% positive story that isn't true.... I don't think I want that kind of respect as it's based on a lie. ((don't mean the pedo thing, just saying in general...)) It's more of the same 'bandd helped pick me out these fabulous lime green curtains for my new living room but I still think he's a filthy sinner that's headed for hell.' Lololol.

    As Marilyn Monroe said if somebody can't handle me at my worst they don't deserve my best either.
    Last edited by Shazaam; 02-15-2021 at 09:28 PM.

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