I know five female LIE Identicals.
One is about 36 and she's hot in a kind of masturbatory fantasy way. I wouldn't mind sleeping with her, but it would only be out of curiosity and it really would be separate from our friendship.
One is about thirty and an ex-military lesbian in a relationship and they have adopted kids. She's smart but I have zero interest in her aside from friendship.
One is about 40 and married and I like her as a person but she's not an object of lust.
Two are over fifty and they are both powerful in their fields. They are more like men than most men, and they are smart, hard, no-nonsense, intimidating without trying to be (I know their internal intention is to be nice, but it comes off as intimidating), and they sometimes seem scary when I think about them.
Come to think about it, the 36 yo is clearly headed in that same direction.
I did meet one of the LIE women on Match. There was no flirting. The convo went something like this:
Me: Hi. I like your profile. Let's meet.
She, about twenty minutes later: OK, I'm in Lansing.
Me: I can drive there. Do you have a favorite restaurant, and when do you want to meet?
She: Yes, the restaurant is ZZZZZ and I'm available on Friday MMM DD after 6 PM. Here is my phone number:
123-456-7890.
Me: OK, I'll see you then. I'll call when I'm fifteen minutes away.
She: Looking forward to it.
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Saberstorm, I've also dated an ILI (MBTI INTJ). No flirting there, either. The convo was very similar to that of the LIE above. Practical, no-nonsense, direct.