I'm not really on reddit, and I mean in this in the general sense, but I... want to be jawncakes' friend.

Where my ENTJ lady friends at? One woman I met in grad school a few years ago maay've been an ENTJ. We REALLY hit it off and I remember she was talkin' about wanting to pursue some personal growth as an actual thing and I was thinking honey, that's what my entire life is about. Especially more so at the time, when I was especially self-improvement-obsessed.

After our first hangout things kept falling through on both of our ends for the next one. And the connection faded. Too bad. Ime in this PhD program it takes a LOT of momentum and initiative to build and maintain a close friendship with someone from outside your department, that you're not naturally going to see a lot of. Which is partly why my ILI cohort-mate are SOO tight.

I'm quite sure she's the first ILI I've ever become close friends with. Can't think of any ILI or LIE friends in my past or my childhood--but the LIE presence in my immediate family is strong (dad + brother are LIE).

@nanashi, thanks for sharing this, it really made an impression on me.