1. I think people are are confused a little bit because your written answers say one thing (Fe), but then they are confused when they see the video, you may appear "Fi".
But, as @
asd mentioned, I think you are using a lot of Fe, and you are essentially "putting on a hat" from your environment; in this case perhaps your Fi-lead friends, the COVID atmosphere, whatever, so you're "coming off" like an Fi-lead.
Afterall, Fe is good at putting on "many different hats" and is very adaptive and they're very good at calibrating itself to the environment and emulating pecularities.
So it depends on your environment; you may express sensitivity or strength, passivity or strength, etc.
2. I also think you might be an Fe-lead perhaps because you are very image-conscious, like you're almost steering an image in a certain direction
2:11
2:17; "I usually sugarcoat things, I'm pretty harmonious"
2:29; "Not all the time" (on being OCD and anxious)
2:58; "I'll tell them as long as it won't hurt their feelings"
@
DeliMeat he may appear unlively because the "lively" mask may be inappropriate
I think it'd be more straight forward with an Fi-lead
These are my thoughts for now
I wanted to see how you viewed Se. I'm pretty strong with Se, so I'd be like "Hey JIM! What do you think of THIS" lol