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    I think gay guys tend to want the muscular 'Chad'. Gay men are often very tactile like that. I think the 'Chad' stereotype for str8 women is a bit different. But it tends to be about height, social dominance, confidence/arrogance, certain large things...

    And yeah @squark I'm clearly hurting nanashi's feelings because it's like I'm indirectly making fun of her for her own preferences. But I really don't mean to do that because I'm not really thinking of her much at all when I go on my rants...

    I'm well aware of the exception of stereotypes/rules for the fact of my own existence. I mean though... my own LII dad was very handsome, he looked like a movie star- but he was so shy awkward/dorky/nice & nerdy and he didn't really have a lot of physical strength or confidence. My ESE mom with her 4D Se was much more like that way...however my mom agrees with me because before she met my dad she was into assholes lol. So she agrees with me and says 'All women want assholes.' I think really even nice guys are assholes deep down inside though they just have to tap into it. I think for the large part being 'nice' can be a huge illusion and a guy will probably get more dates if he taps into his healthy assholeism... although my dad was all those things nice/shy/nerdy - my mom flat out told me that she would not go out with him if she was the one that had to ask him on a date.

    I think the thing about pc mainstream feminism is it gets destroyed because it's easily revealed that they want too much superiority/narc supply and not 'equality' and that the Chad thing is just further proof of their true motivations. I mean I'm not picking on or starting fights with women- but it's just objectively true that we do protect and give women what they want more then men (but for good reason) already naturally. Even as a gay guy I'm expected to die for women for the greater good for society and in a natural tragedy I'd be the one expendable and women wouldn't be. As Karen Straughan said, in exchange for that deal- men have gotten certain titles and priveleges in society and more money all to help with that cause. Yes, men make more money but it's usually to help support our female family members that we care about. In feminism, you give women the equal privilege but also protect her from the negative 'dark half' of that same privilege.

    So it really does often become some thing people make fun of where some stereotypical fat angry dyke just wants to eat and kill all men like a campy cartoon character.

    Men are also punished a lot more by society if we do something immoral or wrong compared to women. We have longer/harsher prison sentences- but that's probably balanced by the fact that men are objectively more dangerous in a physical way and usually it's just some safeguard Ne 'what if' case that makes people afraid on a primal level. I don't think "equality" works the way feminists think would really work.

    Ugh I still consider myself liberal but I can't help but agree with some stuff conservatives say, especially about this issue. But certain right-wing people have made excellent points but went too much on the side of being a bully and I don't want to make that same mistake as I don't think that's productive or helpful either. So I'm sorry too if my Fe gets out of hand.. but we all know it probably won't be the last time lolol.
    Last edited by Shazaam; 02-24-2021 at 12:59 PM.

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