Quote Originally Posted by FreelancePoliceman View Post
Out of curiosity, have you ever considered that your own trouble with English might affect your typings of English-speakers?
Would this affect his typing of Russian women? No.

Personally, I think @Sol has subconscious fears of being in a long term relationship. I can relate. My mother, my first model for a male-female relationship, was a hostile and controlling mind-displacement concentration camp capo. This means I have alarm bells go off at the first sign of attempted control, and I’m wary the rest of the time.

I need a woman who doesn’t need to control me and who actively seeks my company without making claims. If I find her, she won’t need to make claims.

But women like this are not common, and if Sol has this kind of anxiety, he could be stand-offish for a long time.
He might even express his fears that she is not the one. Constantly. While still hoping to be proven wrong.